ok here is a long story short~~
my ex of 4 long yrs keeps coming over when ever he wants to, call me all the time, texts me all day long and wont leave me be. all he say is that he is sorry and want to work it out but there is nothing to work out. he dose not work smokes weed and drinks to much. i almost called CPS becasue they smoke with his kid there> his son is only 9.
we broke up almost a month ago, i stopped careing for him 6 months ago.
my daughter dad is back in our lives now and will be moving down here when he can next summer, i know that he will make him leave me be but what do i do util then?
should i get a Restraining order or what?
2006-12-26 12:54:06 · 5 answers · asked by jlw78418 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
Many states have a domestic abuse hotline or services. These are should be free services, and the staff should be familiar with the local laws regarding stalking and restraining orders. They may have other suggestions. Even if he has not abused you, it is a preventtive measure and they should be willing to help. I'm sure where you are located. You may want to look at http://www.abusedadultresourcecenter.com
2006-12-26 13:01:20 · answer #1 · answered by TheCrwth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sternly warn him one last time, maybe even call the police and advise them that you don't want him on your property. They should then deliver that message and make a report. If he comes by anyway, call the police. If he continues to come by, he can even be charged with stalking. A restraining order wouldn't be a bad idea either. Change your phone number on your cell. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-26 21:05:18 · answer #2 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a restraining order and have an officer issue a criminal trespass warning.
this is how tragedies start -- he will probably only get worse and will eventually get violent with you. You need to document everything, from messages to calls to him going to your house.
2006-12-26 21:24:16 · answer #3 · answered by toobusytostress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get the restraining order, but (and it is a big but) will he respect it. If he does not, you have to have him arrested, and taken to jail and then to court for the violation. If you aren't ready to do this, then don't waste your time, as the order will do you no good.
2006-12-26 20:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you shouldn't for a while when it gets worse then i think you should get one hope my answer helped you!!
2006-12-26 21:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_semal_24 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋