Can you tell if he is sleeping with some one else but telling you, no he isn't?
2006-12-26 12:51:47 · 46 answers · asked by kiku 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh come on Kiku how naive can you get? how old are you and have you had any previous male friends because you quest would suggest no! so slow up and have a long think before you enter into anything like this again and give that guy the elbow
2007-01-01 05:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by srracvuee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy is using you for sex you can tell if he only calls you at night or if every conversation the two of you have ends up being about sex. If you offer to go out and he always has "other" plan then he is. If a guy were sleeping with someone else, you could tell by this: he askes to have sex or something but your not in the mood. If he has someone else, it wouldn't really matter if you had sex with him or not b/c he would get it from the other one.
2006-12-26 13:07:02 · answer #2 · answered by Crazed Chica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. i am a guy so i could totaly answer it. watch if he just wants to meet with you in order to have sex iwith you, also once you are done pay close atention to waht he does afterwards, does he cudle with you and tell you how much he loves you, or does he just say that he has to go. another thing is, dont let him have it and watch close how his attitude towards u changes now you might want to be wearing protection, because if he infact is banging someone else, you dont wanna get aids or something like it. i hope the man is not cheating you but hey you gotta take these steps to find out. best of luck
2006-12-26 13:19:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't really know until you realise the relationship is not progressing. That is, he is quite happy to spend Tuesday and Friday with you, but he is not available on other days because he is with 'mates'. Also he will resist the idea of moving in with you.
I know this because after my divorce I shamelessly took it out on women in general, something I apologise for now as it was not fair on them. I basically 'used' two very decent girls at the same time - but eventually I lost because it was impossible to form a relationship with either of them as I believe a relationship has no future if not based on trust. I ended it and found a woman I since married and have remained loyal to.
2006-12-26 12:58:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You take off from work and stalk him, following every darn move he makes and digitally recording it, too! When the louse starts to make love to his other girlfriend, you use your lockpick to break into the apartment and leave a bunny boiled live in a pot cooking on the stove. Yeah. Then you'll know. Nobody could resist telling that story; and when he does, you GOT HIM!
2006-12-26 12:56:22 · answer #5 · answered by swylie2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like he is sleeping with someone else, most likely he is. If he doesn't take you out on dates regularly or take you around his family (he could just be using you for sex). If he doesn't go out of his way to remember important dates of yours (birthday, award at work, Christmas, etc.) If he cancels several dates you've had and never makes up for it.
2006-12-26 12:54:52 · answer #6 · answered by Martini Babee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He won't ask you to go out with him, like to the movies or dinner. He'll want to skip dinner and go straight back to your place. He'll make some excuse so that he doesn't have to spend the night. Most of the time you know if a guy is using you and there's no point trying to block it out. Even if you like him when you start to feel bad about yourself get rid of him!
2007-01-02 06:39:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because that is the only thing he will want from you and everything else will not be interesting to him
He will be constantly irritable and treat you like you're the bain of his life, unless he's gettig IT
If you don't "co-operate", he's moody and off with you
He goes out or pressures you if you say no to s**
2007-01-02 01:53:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of this situation as a friend using you in general, regardless of the subject. if a guy is using you for sex, he would only want sex from you and nothing else. he would treat you as if sex was the only thing you were capable of, and that's wrong. you deserve better.
2006-12-26 12:57:47 · answer #9 · answered by Rebekah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to come over if he just start trying to have sex with u then u know what it is but if he sit and chil without trying then just maybe but you have to try that a few times not back to back cause if yall already started having sex and then u just stop then he will no something up or just have sex with him when u want to i mean is the sex even worth it
2006-12-26 13:01:48 · answer #10 · answered by lil lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋