heyy everyone, heres my issue. i love this girl. she loves me back and everything is perfect. but i dont think we r goin fast enough. then there is this other girl. she has mood swings, but is way way way hotttttttttttttttt. She wants to move realy fast. Which one should i choose???????? help me please.
2006-12-26 12:49:22 · 22 answers · asked by louise g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're an idiot
2006-12-26 12:51:08 · answer #1 · answered by Bella 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That second girl may be hot, and wants to move fast, but you might not know her as well as Girl 1. Girl 2 may not "like you" and if u ever want to move faster, u should mutually be able to say you love each other. Besides, mood swings arent good. Girl 2 seems temporary, but Girl 1 is perfect with you, so stay with her. If you go with Girl 2, you'll break off all terms with Girl 1 morally, and she'll never go back to you. Girl 2 may seem fun at first, but if she wants to go fast for no reason at all, its temporary and she may be even using u to make some other guy jealous.
I dont kno why I'm getting into this, I guess Im bored lol, but whatever u decide, make sure you know the consequences. i dont know the circumstances that well, like about Girl 2, so i might seem like a critic, but do what u want to. u should always try to maintain relationships tho. If u want Girl 2, the best and surprisingly least hurt way to do it is to tell Girl 1 ur feelings. Good luck!
2006-12-26 20:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by desigal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how old you are. If you are in your early 20s go for the horny one. The other one would probably end op being a okay relationship for a few years and then you will realize that you wanted to experience other things and she will do the same. You want to experience a lot before you settle down. You will have a better relationship when you know whats good and whats bad. If you are closer to 30 and have already experienced enogh go for the one that does not put out. She sounds like a respectable girl that will be loyal and faithfull and will make you happy in the long run. You don't want to end up with a whore. Good luck.
2006-12-26 20:59:09 · answer #3 · answered by JV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the girl you love. Its a gift to have someone you love that loves you back. In the long run, the girl who moves very fast will get tired of you and move on to another guy. I hope you make the right choice.
2006-12-26 20:53:13 · answer #4 · answered by lost_in_afantasy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the first girl. the two of you feel a mutual love for each other, and everything goes well when you're together. and what's so important about going fast? the faster the relationship goes, the faster the relationship dies. you want to take things slow and get to know the girl better. it's more important and practical to feel a mutual love for each other than go fast in a relationship.
2006-12-26 20:53:44 · answer #5 · answered by Rebekah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love the one girl, this wouldn't even be a question. Choose the one who's hot and wants to move fast, and let the other one find somebody who really loves her.
2006-12-26 20:51:24 · answer #6 · answered by milomax 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were in your situation I would first, think about which one makes me happy(w/o sexual contact) and then I would think about which one I would consider spending the rest of my life with. to be honest, things 9 out of 10 times always go right when you take things slow b/c it shows that you are patient and can satisfy someone in many other ways than sex. When you take it fast, you already know soooo much about that person and you tend to get bored or tired of the person, therefore marriage wouldn/t be the key...Whenever you are about to date someone....consider this"Would I ever consider spending the rest of my life with her"...and then after that you follow your heart....I hope I helped...
2006-12-26 20:57:30 · answer #7 · answered by GOD-lova 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the wrong place to answer that question.
You should go by your own terms.
Consider the long-term issues, you might find yourself with the one who really cares about you, but end up cheating with that moody one.
2006-12-26 22:05:00 · answer #8 · answered by m_0hi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one that you love!!! If the "hot" girl has a bad attitude then you're judging ladies the wrong way!
2006-12-26 20:51:58 · answer #9 · answered by 619ILOVEREYREY619 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick love over lust.
Taking things slow is not a bad thing. Keep control of your hormones.
2006-12-26 20:51:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first one.
2006-12-26 20:51:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋