If you're in that uncertain stage before dating. Both parties have expressed interest, but somehow you guys just aren't getting together. If this goes on for long enough (about 6 months) and the temperature has dropped ...
I still like him, but I got a little bit tired of him not making things clear between us. I think he senses that things are going a bit cold too.
Is it too late to bring back some feelings that might have been there before? Should I make an effort? Or is it too late to do anything once things go cold?
2006-12-26 12:42:35 · 10 answers · asked by Olivia L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Instead of beating around the bush, you should talk to him and ask him what's going on... If you want to make this work, you have to do something about it.
2006-12-26 12:44:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
After six months, it's worth making on last effort. Your right, just cut the crap. Invite him over for dinner but you better have a dessert planned in advance. Make it a candle light dinner with wine and put the moves on him, because it sounds like it is going nowhere if you wait for him to make the first move (he almost sound like the son of a preacher man, he is being too polite).
Put on your best sexy outfit and make sure he gets the message loud and clear. If he does not respond, then you know there is something wrong and the relationship is not worth persuing. Could be something holding him back, like another women or a secret he if feeling guilty about. At least give it a shot.
2006-12-26 20:50:34 · answer #2 · answered by Girls M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess u can't really do anything about it really if yall aren't a couple (I'm assuming). But if the guy really liked you, wouldn't you think he would've gave more of an effort a long time ago? I think that the male should have more drive than the female thats just my opinion, and if he doesn't than maybe he doesn't treasure some things like you do.. just a thought.
2006-12-26 20:47:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never too late...it takes two to make the world go round...if both parties are willing there is a chance that love can still remain. Go for it! Do things that made you fall in love with him in the first place and vice versa. What made you guys start dating, rekindle what's lost.
2006-12-26 20:46:16 · answer #4 · answered by BabyRuth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There may be a reason things haven't progressed: esteem issues, peer pressure, an unknown significant other, impotence, homosexuality...he may have just thought it was a nice friendship.
If this has really gone on for six months and you're that frustrated, I'd be considering looking elsewhere, or, you could just be very direct and say "hey, what's the deal here..."
2006-12-26 20:47:08 · answer #5 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not too late if you're still interested. Talk to him and find out. Tell him you want to clarify something. Just make it clear the game isn't going to go on after this. And then make it happen or move on.
No sense to keep frustrating yourself over something that's going nowhere fast.
2006-12-26 20:45:47 · answer #6 · answered by Ivan The Not So Terrible 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If over the course of 6 months neither of you has made a move to actually go on a date, I'd say it's pretty clear the desire isn't REALLY there on either side.
2006-12-26 20:45:12 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay the choice has been made- your actions speak volumes.
rekindle-6 months? that question is for 6 years or 14 years!
If you have to ask, its over and you know that.
it wan't the perfect mate for you both
bless him with a kiss
we have grown apart
move on and leave only happy memories-wish him happiness
2006-12-26 20:48:22 · answer #8 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not ask him to get a casual lunch or a coffee and see how that goes
2006-12-26 20:44:59 · answer #9 · answered by Christie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never too late!
Talk to him and ind out what he wants and then strt over again!
Good luck
2006-12-26 20:44:57 · answer #10 · answered by anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋