What do i do about this boy that i want but scared to want?can i avoid his calls and not say anything?

Question

I've liked him for a while, hes 4 years older than i am. Hes liked me for more than i have him. I really like him but when i dont talk to him i dont really miss him, i dont want to talk to him when i'm not. He makes me feel all weird, strange, almost wrong inside. Hes experienced. He calls me, and i dont pick up. I lie and say i never got his call, he knows i'm lieing b/c hes not an idiot. I've known him maybe 3 years, we arent friends, i wish we were. I cant get the nerve to call him back, i want to, but i dont. I only told him i liked him about a month ago, and ever since i have tryed to avoid meeting up with him. In every conversation we have online, he asks when he can see me. I make excuses. I really wish he would give up and leave me alone, i'm wasting his time. Quoting '' He is everything u want , he is everything u need, he is everything inside of u that u wish u could be,he says all the right things at exactly the right time but he means nothing to u and u dont know why''.

Answer 1

You either want him or dont. If it feels wrong, don't. It sounds to me like you are leading him on. If you don't want to meet him then QUIT TALKING TO HIM ONLINE!!

He's getting mixed signals. If you are not even friends why are you talking to each other...I can't decide what you want from reading your question. If you want someone else to tell you not to see him, then I'm telling you, dont see him.

Answer 2

Sounds like you have mixed emotions. Just pick up the phone when he calls and ask him *politely* to back off just a little. Only you know if you really want him or not.

Answer 3

Seems u like him but something is driving you away, conscience. - but if u have liked him for solong what is keeping you? and if yu told him you liked him, there is obviously something there. try actually answering the phone for once, give it a try. maybe youll be suprised at how it goes. but if you think you might not like him, then tell him. say you just wanna b friends. it might b hard for him in the beginning, but it'll b ok. people move on.

Answer 4

know the song familiar with the situation just give it time and space dont go look for him right away teat him kindly but kinda strong dont let im think that you want something else with him he might confuse your desire to be his friend for somethign else just keep it simple if he is making you feel like that dont talk to him if he talkes to you treat him with distance ive been there and im there right now its not pretty but u just have to be strong and dont let it pass throught time

Answer 5

im kinda in the same boat but i known my friend for 7yrs but just tell him if he is that nice then he will understand if he dont then you should be glad you told him just tell what do you have to lose except for a headace

Answer 6

ok well it sounds like you dont really like him anymore or you do and feel like its wrong too or that you shouldnt.

i woldnt date him. jus tell him that you dont want to date him. dont tell him the truth, well the entire truth just tell him that you'er not interested. if you want to.

good luck,
mo

P.S. nobody ever said that you have to date him. just do w/e you feel is best

Answer 7

gosh- its easy- ure in love with him but ure nerves are driving him away. Once, just call back! he'll really love u for it

Answer 8

Of course you can avoid his calls and not say anything. You have free will don't you?

Answer 9

my advice, want him but make him want you to, like if he askes you on a date than say,"um i guess i could.)
on the other hand if you are pretty much over him, tel him this..(PLEASE STOP ASKING ME OUT YOU SON OF A *****!!!!)

Answer 10

Don't you think if there was really something 'there' you wouldn't be avoiding him?