My man left me, I don't know why...he won't talk to me at all even for X-mas!! I am going crazy what do I do?? We are not teenagers either...and I can't handle this..help!!
He's extremely attractive, even in his old age. He used to be an actor..I am feeling maybe I am just more hurt because he is so fine!!
2006-12-26 12:36:42 · 11 answers · asked by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your answers r really helping me already!
Thanxx!! Luv Shayla
2006-12-26 13:15:46 · update #1
I feel for you. People can be so cruel at times. I'm really sorry this is happening. This hasn't happened to me but I have "gone crazy" when someone I liked didn't feel the same way. What happened to you happened to one of my best friends and she was distraught. The best I can offer is the promise of time. It will hurt, then it will hurt some more and more...but eventually the pain will begin to fade. You can attempt to contact him, but don't overdo it. It will only make you look desperate and crazier (been there, done that).... and if it makes you feel better to think of him as a pathetic loser for not having the decency to speak to you directly, then do so. Yes, because he's so beautiful makes it hurt a bit more, but that's just his physical. He could have been born looking differently but his heart would have still been the same. It's his loss... and unfortunately your painful experiene to go through, but many people have been there. You are not alone. I wish you a speedy recovery.
2006-12-26 12:42:40 · answer #1 · answered by ♪ ♥ ♪ ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well usually if someone leaves someone without an explanation then they are at fault. But nonetheless its hard and it hurts but then... love is hurts doesn't it? You know I think one of my favorite authors wrote it best... "Love is as hard as steel, and thrice as cruel" -Jacqueline Carey (from Phedre in Kushiels Dart)
Have you just not heard from him or have you actually seen him and he just snubs you. Cause he's either dead, or he's seeing another woman. In that case he's just a great big ***. But back to your question. Yes, many people tend to go crazy when that happens. Because at then end of every relationship theres something everyone needs... Closure. That applies in life and death, business, and love. So you can do one of 2 things. You can forcefully confront the *** at work or at home and just ask him face to face why he's being an ***. Or you can just say screw him, he doesn't deserve me and move on with your life.
Besides, why would you wanna stay with a person that treats you like dirt? You deserve better! (...unless of course you like that sorta thing! :D) Anyways I hope that helped ya out... have a happy New Year and a great life!
2006-12-26 12:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by Colin B 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I went to my bf's apartment and he wouldn't open the door.So he was on the 2nd floor and a girl open the window without her top on.So I threw a rock and hit her in the middle of her chest.That was 20 years ago and I see that was stupid even though it's a nice conversation piece.I was so hurt I thought I wanted to die.I didn't want to live without him.Now I can't even remember his full name..Do u get my point. Men will come and go.So until u find one that treats u like a queen u need to move on.Believe me u won't remember their name after 20 or was it 30 years.Good luck
2006-12-26 12:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have been there and eventhough you may not be able to see it now HE DID YOU A FAVOR!!!! He may not be able to continue with you because he's afraid of you, not you exactly but what you make him feel! Be thankful that now eventhough it may hurt alot you have your doors open for new experiences and you can find that person that should be Thankful to have you in their life! That will wakeup thinking of you and that could never imagine a day without you. Good Luck! You will find someone you seem like a person with feelings something that he so obviuosly lacked!!
2006-12-26 12:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by Maria C 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Been there, bought the t-shirt.
Yeah, it sux, but why dwell on it? Go out, find someone younger and finer (is that a word? "finer"?)
Honestly, it does suck pretty bad, but I cried about it for a week, then started going out with friends and got over her. Good thing, my life is so much better without her in it.
2006-12-26 12:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was engaged and my fiancee broke up with me completely out of the blue!! I know the feeling. No reason he gave me was anything I did. It's tough cause in my heart I still feel that we should be together.
Hang in there
2006-12-26 12:42:39 · answer #6 · answered by asm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dated this guy, and everything was going great. Then he broke up with me, and didn't give me a reason behind it. I was devestated, moreso just because I didn't know what had happened.
A year or so later, he finally told me (we had continued to keep in touch, as friends).
2006-12-26 12:39:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, no woman has made me go crazy, unless it was crazy in the sense that I wanted to wring her neck. Sorry to hear about that, but that's what you girls do, cling and obsess...
2006-12-26 12:43:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup, that's what people do. My only suggestion would be put a smile on, somehow b/c you are more miserable he's feeling more superior. Dont let him do that!
2006-12-26 12:47:19 · answer #9 · answered by little asian gal in cresent city 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yup an she broke my heart and i still havent gotten over it,try to find someone else and move on
2006-12-26 12:43:15 · answer #10 · answered by Francois J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋