I was with this guy for 5 yrs ,ended our relationship .Then was seeing a guy that broke up with his girlfriend of 2 yrs .We both decided to cool it and step back ,so in the mean time my ex and i hooked back up as so did the other guy and his girl.But they ended it again.I care for the guy i am with but ,still have trouble thinking of this other guy who has contacted me recentlyBut ,this other guy isn't looking for a relationship,Which doesn't seem to bother me at times.The guy i got back with of 5 yrs ,are relationship hasn't gone anywhere and it gets boring .I am not getting any younger but ,not sure what is the best thing to do.Hold on to someone who says they love me sooo much,but don't know where its going or take a chance on being single and seeing what could turn up with a guy who claims he don't want a relationship?
2006-12-26 12:36:35 · 10 answers · asked by michelle b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go with the one that lights your spark the most, chemistry overrules, passion is better than boring
2006-12-26 12:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm. total drama! bummer. Make a list of what you like and don't like about each. Remember that you've been with this other person for 5 years, that is a long time - and that the other person is still new and you could fall into "old" routines with either of them. decide what qualities you like best and what suits you. Is there a reason this 5 year relationship isn't going anywhere anymore? are you putting something different into the new one vs the old one? are you still an active participant? I believe people can make old relationships new, it just depends on how you look at things. Do what your heart says. Once you truly find the answer and how you feel it will be easy, trust me.
2006-12-26 12:42:51 · answer #2 · answered by CandiApple 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't getting any younger, and who is, dump both men, take some time to be alone , and think about what you really want in a man, then go after what you want. You don't want to ever look back with regret over wasted time or missed opportunities.
2006-12-26 12:50:43 · answer #3 · answered by Szy_snowflake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you don't know what you want in life. Do you want to play the fields or do you want to be with someone who cares for you and loves you? Relationship takes a lot. If you love someone, you must make the efforts to get it where you want it to be. What is it that makes both of you happy? What can you do to improve it?
Take care.
2006-12-26 12:44:12 · answer #4 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. It's going to end up the same either way: going nowhere, no future. Both of these guys don't want commitment. There are other people out there, you know.
2006-12-26 12:40:00 · answer #5 · answered by Rawr_Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 19:37:39 · answer #6 · answered by Erika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to follow your no-name game. I would dump both of them. Use one you trust the most for hook-ups and look around for someone completely out of your normal "guy" realm. Someone completely different.
2006-12-26 12:55:17 · answer #7 · answered by intewonfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should hit the other guy because it seems thta you dont look to like the guy your with... and plan to marry him?... you start to forget him and be with the guy you really want and that of not wanting a relationship is bullsht dont care for that
2006-12-26 12:42:59 · answer #8 · answered by e)v1n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!!! Lots of drama for you. I guess you should go with the new guy if the old one isn't going anywhere.
2006-12-26 12:39:56 · answer #9 · answered by Answer Police 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
gave the guys a fake name sorry i won't get confuse, there's to many guys
2006-12-26 12:40:42 · answer #10 · answered by darkangel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋