I am a very honest guy. I am a very romantic guy. I am very good looking and never had a problem getting a women. But just about every women I get they walk all over me. I do just about every thing for the person I am dateing. I am a very nice person and every one likes me. I treat women like they are princeses. Now my attitude has changed on the way I think about women.
2006-12-26 12:32:21 · 39 answers · asked by Chris F 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont act to nice dont get that wrong. I just treat women how I think they should be treated. But I found that no matter what you say what you do they will still act like that. When I thought I was acting to nice and given in to much I would stop, but then I was the asshole for that. I ve met alot of diffrent type of women. They have just been about the same. Either they are striaght up *** holes or just crazy, or stupid, or acted like you are the best and treated you really good and then all of a sudden bam they are *** holes.
2006-12-26 12:48:54 · update #1
is cuz your being too nice, why do you think women are going for jerks and they still know they aren't good guys for them? some how you have to show a little bit of aggressiveness, be a little bit of a jerk ... but don't change how you are, the nice and caring guy you are
2006-12-26 12:43:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK romeo.. are you just choosing the really pretty girls for there looks...or do you also notice the slightly over weight ones that are not so pretty.. in any case try to get to know them first.. become their friend and later their lover..you don't need to but the the world.. open doors for them and pick them some nice flowers to show you care.. if they want expensive gifts then let them be..they only want what they can get from you.. after you have been with them a while say 2 to 3 yr then the nice gifts should come other than that only on bd and Xmas and valentine day should you get them something nice but no more than you can afford if you come off a door matt they will wipe there feet on you the same way a guy would.. believe me i know i tend to treat my guys with love and respect and shower them with gifts and try to be romantic.. living with one of the lest romatic men right now and trying to adjust my way of thinking.. wastnt easy i always but presents for my men and the last 2 yrs i gave him xmas and bd present and he gave me know.. this yr i did what he did he got nothing
2006-12-26 12:50:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a great woman walked over a great guy, she's not so great. She'd rather climb the ladder to a higher point to find a guy she thinks is great. You get what i mean? She'll pass a perfect guy for not so perfect guy. No matter what, you will find a great woman who will NOT walk over you. I promise and no matter what, dont change your attitude on women. Act as you would, be who you are.. DO NOT change yourself for some woman. The next gal who comes along will fall for your philosophy, your looks, your personality... basically a great woman for a great guy. Hope this helps.
2006-12-26 12:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by redneckshorty84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Let Them.
You are a pizunk.
The beginning of fixing this is to realize that women are NOT PRINCESES.
Dont worry, One Day when she turns 35 - 40 and she has slept with over 20 guys and been run over like a speedbump, she will come to you ready to settle down so you can take care of her kids and help her buy a house.
Just think, whenever you walk around town you can wonder if the guy driving by slept with her in her "wild days".
Chicks will advise you to stay the way you are because they know you will be there after they got their rocks off and need a poindexter to settle down with.
2006-12-26 12:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by Its me 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
either they are stupid or u r...u have 2 b a little strong on them u cant b 2 nice all the time they like a little badboy in u 2 put them in line every now and then im not saying beat them coz thats not being a man.....toughen up......many also do it but they dont know that everytime they treat the guy bad that makes the guy more and more aware and his personality starts 2 change
2006-12-26 12:40:44 · answer #5 · answered by sil3ncioso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, u must of hooked up with the wrong woman.
Cause u are the kind of guy most mature, honest women want.
Guess u have experienced a lil life, but that is no reason to judge women. U will come up on a real princess one day and be happy.
2006-12-26 12:36:06 · answer #6 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should treat a woman like an average human and not a princess. Not everyone is going to appreciate the special treatment that you give them. You need to learn to recognize giving individuals before you give your all to every Dawn, Nikki and Mary. Maybe then your affection will be reciprocated instead of having selfish women taking advantage of your kindness.
2006-12-26 12:45:16 · answer #7 · answered by SassyCassie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some woman is just not use to a good man they take advantage of them . There so use to men treating them like dogs. Don,t let anyone change the way that you treat a woman ; one day a real woman will come along and appreciate you . Good luck
2006-12-26 12:39:48 · answer #8 · answered by inaijah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's a difference b/t being nice & being a door mat.
there's a difference b/t being aggressive & assertive.
Learn how to say 'No' when you learn that, sure, they might get 'angry' but if she's worth it, she'll know she's out of bounds on whatever she requested. Maybe your attitude needed to change on women in this regard. And if it still is not working, then maybe you need some 'you' time to figure out what you want.
A relationship should be a partnership not a sole propietary ownership.
2006-12-26 12:39:25 · answer #9 · answered by jmintecu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause some guys are dumb and don't understand the game. First, don't be a very honest guy. Second, don't be a very romantic guy. Third, don't be a very nice person. Fourth, don't treat them like princeses.
You're just doing everything wrong.
2006-12-26 12:36:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats just the way life is my good man. Its alright to be the nice guy but there is such a thing as being too nice. You can be a nice guy but instead of doing things such as "footing the entire bill".. make it fair and offer to pay half instead. Its hard to sometimes know the difference in being a nice guy and being taken advantage of. But in time you will learn.
2006-12-26 12:37:59 · answer #11 · answered by Colin B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋