I am confused really...how is this possible?
2006-12-26 12:24:48 · 16 answers · asked by sajal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I don't think so, You must love,respect and honor the man,you want to marry. You are marrying this guy for financial reason ? And the other guy.ohh,ahh, the sex is so exciting?? Don't mistake sex for love. If you are in love with this other guy,he is the one you are marrying and spend the rest of your life with him. We can not be like men,who can love more than one,and they are still respected.we women can not love more than one,our self respect goes down the drain.
2006-12-26 12:46:22 · answer #1 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem here is just that you have emotional ties with your past love interest, what you should do is make sure that you are really ready to move on, if you get married it will be a rocky marriage due to you always thnking of somebody else, you cant drive a straight line if you keep looking back, you know what i mean? You may love this person but from what you say it seems as if you might have to stop for awhile and let this person know that you might have to much baggage right now to carry around with you, and that if you do decide to really be with them that you want to be able and give them all of your undivided attention that they deserve from a spouse, you dont have to tell them the entire reason why, but just say youre getting jitters, next time make sure that you dont jump into something thats deep without a life saver. Good luck
2006-12-26 12:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by Summer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always possible to wonder about other guys, even when you're commited. Theres not one person for everyone and being commited doesn't mean you'll stop wondering about other people.
However, only you really know how you feel about the guy you're getting married to. You need to sort out if you really are in love with him, and really want to marry or commit to him right now. You have to be honest to yourself. The feelings for the other guy might not mean anything, but they might mean something. You need to figure that out before you jump into anything.
2006-12-26 12:43:16 · answer #3 · answered by Libby p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's possible, I did it and it worked out that I know am more in love with the one I married than the one I wanted to marry in the first place.
2006-12-26 20:55:46 · answer #4 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes possible.. try to do some thinking if you really want to marry the man whom u are commited or just wait for the man whom you are in love with
2006-12-26 17:13:19 · answer #5 · answered by labs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know some people think u can buy love in other words its what a person can do for u, a new car,pretty clothes,a nice home all this is good,but in essence if u do love another that love cannot be bought,and that love will always be on ur mind,so u can be committed to one and love someone else.
2006-12-26 12:36:11 · answer #6 · answered by woodman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As another person said, anything is possible. Maybe you should sort out your feelings. What is it you like about each person? Make a pro and con list. Also, who have you known longer and which things do you value within each person? what is important to you? Who do you feel will be faithful and supportive of you and your interests?
2006-12-26 12:28:44 · answer #7 · answered by CandiApple 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah its possible, there has even been movies made about that. But it is a recipe for disaster as far as I'm concerned. If you go through with this, your not being honest with yourself.
2006-12-26 12:27:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose it's possible for some--but it sure isn't for me!!! I'm totally committed and in love with my hubby--always have been and always will be.
2006-12-26 12:27:35 · answer #9 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything is possible, if you commit to one guy and in love with another, dont you think you are cheating the guy you commintted in your heart of heart? and you are cheating to your own self too.
2006-12-26 13:50:09 · answer #10 · answered by blue violet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋