are looks that important to a guy?

Question

and wat do they look for

Answer 1

A real man looks for a woman who takes pride in her appearance no matter what her size. He looks for a woman who is confident, kind, caring and just plain sweet. Oh sure most want what they call "eye candy", but who do they usually marry to have children with. You guessed it. Be proud of who you are and how you look. Just remember, the candy could turn out to be an "all day sucker".

Answer 2

Scientific study says that a guy is more stimulated by visual input and that women are more interested in things related to safety, security, and stability.

I'm not sure about your question. Looks will only get you so far. Even the worlds prettiest super model has an ex boyfriend that is tired of looking at her. Work on the smile and personality. If you feel you are in the top 20% and you are a low maintenance then you can meet a real nice guy that will treat you right.

Answer 3

The second I lay eyes on a woman I know if she is datable, not datable or borderline, this is purely looks. This one second assessment can only swing one way or another in borderline cases, and in date-able women who soon reveal horrible personalities.

After you have been dating a while looks are less and less important and personality and compatibility become the rule.

What do I look for? Basically a pretty face is by far the top of the list, next comes an athletic body. I've met very few fat or even chubby girls I would call date-able.

Answer 4

It depends on the guy, to a lot if not most looks are very important. But everyone likes a different look.

Answer 5

I cant tell you what someone looks for because everyone is different. Some guys may not think looks are more important than personality. For me looks are very important. I also look for overall body, nice teeth, hair, butt and back. But that is just me everyone is different.

Answer 6

Some guys, yes--and some guys, no.

We generally look for good hygiene, waist around 70% of hip size, a nice smile and body language that says you're interested. I personally want a gal with a great personality and brain, too, but that's just me.

Answer 7

They certainly were to me. I never asked a girl out that i wasn't physically attracted to. Of course not all guys are attracted to the same characteristics so it all works out. Personally I looked for a girl with a clean look, light colored hair (blonde), blue eyes, cute figure, warm smile, and NO TATTOOS, EXCESSIVE PIERCINGS, or bizarre fashion statements. The last thing I wanted was some girl trying to get back at her parents. Let someone else deal with that mess--not me.

That was for the first date.

Once on the date I looked for different things. Was she kind towards others. If she used profanity or coarse language she was automatically out of the running. I was never impressed with a foul-mouthed girl. If they talked bad about others or their family it was a definite turn-off. And if they seemed to enjoy being with me. Some girls didn't enjoy my sense of humor or the fact that I opened the car door for them (NOT when it was moving of course.) I guess some girls just never dated guys that did that for them and they were uncomfortable with that much attention. I also was never interested in girls that smoked or drank. I was never impressed with smokers breath or drunks. But after several misses I had a perfect hit. A girl with blonde hair, blue eyes, a cute figure, high morals, no vices, clean clear skin, a beautiful smile, a kind disposition towards others, and after six weeks we were engaged, and three months later we were married. Now twenty-seven years later she is still the only one I think about during the day and the only one I dream about at night. We've had five kids, never been separated, never been divorced, never had an affair, never been physically agressive towards each others in 27 years.

For me the patient search paid off.

Good luck. And remember if you use sex to attract guys prior to marriage you will ALWAYS attract guys that only want you for the sex, afterwhich they will dump you and move on to the next-low morals girl. If however, you set your standards high and under no circumstances give up sex prior to marriage you will attract only guys with high morals and rich character that will value you much, MUCH more after marriage.

Just a few words to the wise.

Answer 8

Looks are important to guys and girls. Both want to find someone attractive. If you see a good looking person you go talk to them or whatever, so it's not just us guys. As for your second question, we look for big booties! Beautiful lips are a must!

Answer 9

Looks R important, only 4 the fact it directly reflects how he or she takes care of them self. Yes... Y ride a moped when U can ride a Harley!

Answer 10

Absolutely. Guys operate, without being aware of it for the most part, on the genetic imperative to breed. Healthy, intelligent women who look as if they could produce viable young are at a premium.