Why am I NEVER good enough for my mom?

Question

She's always Getting on my case about how messy I am. So last nite when she went to bed I cleaned up. Like REALLY good. I organized my room and cleaned ANY messes I made out of my room. I didnt get to sleep until 3 AM!!!! well today when my mom saw it all she didnt show ANY emotion!!!! She acted like it was NOTHING. all she told me was that I hadn't but 1 batch of laundry in the washer!! I MEAN COME ON! ONE BATCH! My mom is always telling me how to be better, and how im not the perfect daughter, and she ALWAYS disses me. in front of company too. it hurts. and when I try to do something good. Like I got up my low grade that I have in science and all she said was "You aren't Trying hard enough" I am trying hard I AM!!! Sometimes I feel Like I should just give up. Please help me out, Im feeling really depressed

Answer 1

Actually, I have the exact same mum like u sadly.. Same story too.. I worked really hard to keep the room tidy... Same like u, i slept very late.. Next morning, she came in my room, she got angry beacuse there was a few bits a paper on the floor. Like, come on.. Was she blind or what?? i cleaned up while she was happy sleeping, and she could get angry at me?? Sheesh... I was damn tired i cried while cleaning up! And ofcoz, i cried after the mean words..sometimes i wonder too if she loves me or not.. YUP, it hurts. Its like some one just stabed u in the heart! its like u try ur best to impress ur own mother and she treats u like ****! Yes, we all try and somehow mothers cant see our suffering... haih..NO ONE IS PERFECT! Actually, i'm quite depressed too..

its funny how we feel the same. Anyway, there is no easy solution, but this is what a good friend of mine told me, just make sure u DONT GROW UP AND BE LIKE UR MUM, seriously, u dont want ur own child to be hurt as u were at their age rite?

anyway, u can talk to me about it. I need someone to talk to too..
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my name is dilla and i'm 14, girl ofcz..
Im not some kind or old guy acting as a teen girl, i swear to god.

Just keep calm and stay strong.

Answer 2

See my other answer, but it seems to me that your questions are in fact showing up, just not on the main page due to the high volume of submissions currently. If you are ever in doubt about whether a question of yours was posted, just use the search function below the ask / answer/ discover tool bar to search for your specific question.

Answer 3

I lived that way my whole life, it may change, but you may feel it may not, either way, do what you can to feel good about yourself, and know that you try, and that's the best you can do., talking it out with someone can help too.