Okay, this guy I really REALLY like is going out with someone. I don't know what to do about how I feel. He's my friend and everything, but it kills me because I can't have him. What do I do??? I REALLY wanna go out with him.
2006-12-26 12:08:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends is he dating one of your friends.. (if so i'd back off).. does he have any feelings for you? how long have they been going, is it serious.. What i'd do is try flirting with him.. and he how he reacts .. you'll get ur answer there wheather he likes u or not.. things shoould go from there.. -good luck
2006-12-26 12:11:21 · answer #1 · answered by lauren * 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to leave him alone, he is in a relationship, it is no different than him being married at the moment and you wouldn't want to be a home wrecker right!
So keep the feelings to yourself and try not to spend time around him as it will not help you to lose the feelings you presently have. Put him on the side burner and go look for someone else at least for a while. If he comes up single in the future that is when you could make it known that you are interested. Put yourself in her shoes, would you like someone to take him from you if you were dating him?
2006-12-26 12:14:17 · answer #2 · answered by Marmitemonster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. I have two friends who are going out and i really like the guy for the longest time, but he didn't like me. When they first started going out I was crushed (I even had to watch him ask her out!) and thought I couldn't go on. But I did. You just have to be happy for them. Realize that you want your friend to be happy. And find someone else to crush on. I did and its working. There is going to be someone out there who likes you as much as you like this guy. Chances are there already is someone like that. Look around and see!
2006-12-26 12:13:45 · answer #3 · answered by Romeoashg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay-
if he is a friend first-
you need to be honest with him-
you may not like the answer you hear, so are you prepared for that? will the friendship last?
If not call it an infatuation and just move on!
2006-12-26 12:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well right now since he's in a relationship,theres nothin u can do!
but don't worry if you didnt get to go out with him that means you two were destined to be apart..lots more fish in da sea.
2006-12-26 12:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhh snap feeling ur pain!!! well u know what they say you can't always have what you want but if you feel like u gotta have him then let him know i mean what do u have to loose? except a chance of course
2006-12-26 12:15:54 · answer #6 · answered by REALITY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
awww, i'm sorry... just keep strong. just try to remember " he's just a guy, i'll get over him." i know it's hard to do this. just... just try to live your life and try not to fret over it too much, it won't help your situation at all. try to be happy, and even if you aren't, put that bold smile on... if he's the right guy, he will realize your the one.
2006-12-26 12:13:56 · answer #7 · answered by mackenzie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've got your answer already. He has someone so leave him alone. If he is for you you will get him so just lie low.
2006-12-26 12:12:11 · answer #8 · answered by clar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try thinking of something else. I know its hard
2006-12-26 12:11:54 · answer #9 · answered by Female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you
do nothing.dont be infatuated to him.he treats you as his FRIEND only.go out with him as friendly date thats all. dont destroy what you have now.
2006-12-26 12:13:22 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋