what would make a guy stay around after you have called the police, told him to leave, he thinks he has some right to follow me where ever I am. Why can't he just go away and say nothing. just go
2006-12-26 12:07:11 · 16 answers · asked by kendra 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If this person are causing you distress or alarm by following you where ever you go, you may want to lodge a magistrate complaint at Sub-court or report to the Police for Harassment, alarm or distress under Sec 13B, Cap 184. This section is as follow:
(1) Any person who in a public place or in a private place —
(a) uses threatening, abusive or insulting words or behaviour; or
(b) displays any writing, sign or other visible representation which is threatening, abusive or insulting,
within the hearing or sight of any person likely to be caused harassment, alarm or distress thereby shall be guilty of an offence and shall be liable on conviction to a fine not exceeding $2,000.
2006-12-26 17:21:50 · answer #1 · answered by Tan D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go 2 the police and file a report against him and get a recorder and tape all of his phone calls and give them 2 the police that way you have proof that he is crazy. And don't tell him what you are doing that will only make him angrier.And if he tried 2 hit you then he will do it again and it might be worse.Please go 2 the police right away.I'll keep you in my prayers.
2016-05-23 09:07:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police repeatedly ... get a restraining order. I would take this very seriously. Anyone who ignores a call to the police is short on reason to say the least. Don't assume what he will or will not do next. I'm sure you've heard the stories... most who got hurt in the end didn't take things seriously. Good that you called the police the first time.. now follow up! Be careful!
2006-12-26 12:12:23 · answer #3 · answered by mosaic 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hi Kendra... have went through this exact same thing with my step-daughter and her brain-damaged former boyfriend... Get as many witnesses as you can to events where he is attempting to get close to you...if you already have a RO, try to document all violations with pics, or witnesses if at all possible... Please, right now, find a battered woman shelter near you, call them, and tell them what is going on...they will help, provide free or low cost attorney assistence, and housing if necessary.... By all means, get help RIGHT NOW... This is a potentially life threatening ordeal for you, get all the help you can...Stay with a family member, do anything you can to be with people, in a different location that he does not know about, if possible... Good luck, sweetheart, please get help right now...RIGHT NOW !!!!!!!!!
2006-12-26 12:53:41 · answer #4 · answered by mobileminiatures 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
men that follow you against you will are controlling, he is forcing his way into your life, most men like this have a high potential to rape you, and i would become very cautios around this person, you should buy some mace or a stungun or maybe just a pistol. if you have a male friend or a brother you should let them know so they could run this jerk off, but do not take this stalker guy lightly, he should be taken care of immediatly!
2006-12-26 12:22:33 · answer #5 · answered by DUSTY 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He probably gets something from knowing he is getting to you, knowing he is on your mind... I wouldn't let him manipulate you like this, I would continue to call the police and look into a restraining order, you never know what he is capable of. I am not trying to scare you, just better to be safe then sorry. Good luck.
2006-12-26 12:23:10 · answer #6 · answered by *E* 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cops, never come when you need 'em. He's probably mental. Can you go to an upstairs window and throw rotten tomatoes at him? There are stalking laws for cripes sake! I'd be careful, he sounds really deranged! Keep calling the cops and tell them that if they don't do something you'll call the newspaper and tell THEM that the police don't care if someone is stalking you. That usually gets their attention. Throw buckets of water at him, scream at him to leave (maybe he'll get embarrassed or something).
2006-12-26 12:11:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
For one thing he is a controlling freak.sounds like he's also a jealous type,& can be abusing,& or dangerous.If I would u I'd be very cautious,& watch out,also it wouldn't be a bad idea to get an alarm system on ur house.& some mase,& or a legal,authorized weapon.also I would file a restraining order against him,if he fails to comply w/the order u can have him arrested.
2006-12-26 12:13:50 · answer #8 · answered by fanofcelebritymathersmarshall 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Call the police on him and get a restraining order or something.
2006-12-26 12:11:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
inform the feds. file a case
if he comes within 100 FT near you he will be arrested
2006-12-26 12:09:30 · answer #10 · answered by Jack 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋