so, he is new in school. at first we would talk occasionaly but a few weeks ago we started talking more. at first he was flirting with me, winking and getting closer to me and asking for help outside class, at first i didn't responded much but then i did start to like him too. and i flirted too but now he's withdrawn and doesn't talk as much. What went wrong?? please tell me...
2006-12-26 11:54:05 · 10 answers · asked by pat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He probably doesn't know HOW to juggle his feelings between liking you and not really being certain how YOU feel. I always tell people that flirting has it's place but for only so long before a man will either feel teased and move on or confused and confusion makes people feel helpless when it comes to not knowing what the other person wants or will do next. So before they get hurt, they bow out first. It's always best to eventually suck it up and let the guy know how you feel if you REALLY don't want this one to get away. If you aren't sure how you feel about someone then yeah, enjoy the flirting. But go ahead and get more direct and specific about your desires. Hurt feelings of rejection usually come regardless. We just have to accept that all relationships have a moment were we have to be vulnerable it goes with the territory. It's my suggestion that you straight up ask him about his feelings about you because it sounds like he does care for you. If not then you can move on. Maybe a little embarrassed or hurt but at least you will know. There is nothing wrong with him NOT liking you either-just know that, he is entitled.
2006-12-26 12:13:52 · answer #1 · answered by MeHurdu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Snooze you lose. I had a major crush on this girl in college. I would have done anything to be her boyfriend and tried in every way to be a gentleman. I finally got tired of her playing hard to get and moved on. After I hooked up with someone else, she came crying to me. What the F? Some Girls are so full of S!
2006-12-26 12:00:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you let the fact that he's not in school with you take away from what you had.. keep in contact and if you don't feel like he's trying, then let go and move on.. other then that i don't know! talk to him about how you feel, it's not like the answer you get is gonna be different from if you would have asked or talked about it the first day or a month from now.. just talk!
2006-12-26 11:58:34 · answer #3 · answered by ~broken~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like your a pretty strong person , just walk up to this person and say , Hey !! what gives . What did I do to deserve being disrespected ? Tell me what I did because I'm lost at the point .
2006-12-26 11:59:35 · answer #4 · answered by I'M JUST TRYING TO HELP YOU 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Infatuatis interruptus
2006-12-26 11:58:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lack of response hurts a guy.
2006-12-26 11:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may be interested in someone else. just watch him, you will see who he is talking to, and then you'll know. if you're interested, you could ask him go go hang out or something.
2006-12-26 11:57:00 · answer #7 · answered by *~HoNeYBeE~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's one of those guys that likes it when girls play hard to get. End of problem.
2006-12-26 11:59:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be little shy, Who cares don't worry.
2006-12-26 11:58:39 · answer #9 · answered by melly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you missed the bait when it was fresh...........no you gotta earn it back.................
2006-12-26 12:00:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋