Well you see we look at each other and it's like gazing. I feel like I can see into his soul, I liek talking with him because he has been through the same thing as I as far as relationships go and we have gotten a long really well since we met each other. My friend intorduced us but not as liek a blidn date but rather to work together. We work together great. The problem is I want to hang out with him more with out telling him that I like him, which I think I have some what but he works a lot, he has two jobs, and I am a big chicken when it comes to confessing feelings. I don't like rejection. I think I just want to be friend's for now but I dont' know what to feel. I am in school and work and I take care of my daughter as well as figure skate and book and merchandise for a hip hop group. I don't have a lot of time. If in theory we feel the same about each other, with our limited time schedules could we make it work and how can we get toegther to hang out?
2006-12-26 11:47:20 · 3 answers · asked by WINGS 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I also think he is shy, a little at least in the department o frelationships. he has been burned by love as have I and thus I think it may be harder for us to confess that sort of thing to each other because we are afraid to be rejected or to have our hearts crushed again.
2006-12-26 11:47:29 · update #1
Its great when you meet the right person, so you dont want to wait to long before some one else grabs him right out from under you, but you dont want to move in to fast. I suggest you get a group of friends and invite him over for a fun night. This way it is neither obvious you have feelings but you didnt forget about him. When the time is right, casually say you would like to go out for dinner just the two of you or something with just the two of you. He wont feel pressured to be in a relationship but he will still have you as an option. hope that helps!! - chellie
2006-12-26 11:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by chellie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way i can see this working at all is if the two of you sit down and arrange a time to be together . just ask the guy if he would like to see a movie with you or something then by the sounds of it you both need to go get your calendars and see what days match up as free days.
that i think is the only hope here
2006-12-26 19:52:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard....
but i say go for it...
the worst he can do is say no... right?!
and even if u 2 do eventually break up.... doesn't mean you cant stay as friends... right!?
good luck... :)
2006-12-26 19:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by the sign 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋