""Don't take this the wrong way,promise,I really feel like we jumped into this way too fast,I love you to death,but I think it would be better for us to go back to friends,I cant have a bf right now, things are already way to stressful at home,remember I still love you VERY much,we can still talk...thats if you want to...I think this will be better for us in the long run...PS-I can't stop crying...I love you, 4 ever and always...K.P."" She gave me that note a few days ago, I dont know what shes trying to tell me, she doesnt really love me? She going with someone else and shes breaking off with me? PLEASE HELP ME FOLKS. Thank you for any answers...very much.
2006-12-26 11:46:40 · 23 answers · asked by whatfield2232 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whoa!! PLEASE READ!!!
wait a min herE mate!
lisun she soundS DAMN upset to me. if she didnt wanna be with u in the future then she wouldnt ahev even thought of giving you the note. if in the meantime of you two being "friends" you kiss another girl or sumat she will be very hurt since she dows love you alot and doesnt want to stress you out with her family problems. give her some time man!
i think if your a good man you should be patient and try to talk to her. listen to what she has to say, and if she says something "accidently" that may hurt you, remember she is very stressed at the moment.
suggest to her that you wanna be her bf nt a mate, n youll be able to comfort her more also since she does ned a shoulder to cry on.
dont you dare go out there and find another girl. shes a sweet heart. dnt break her heart by letting go. just lisen to what she sez ok. she hant got owt againmst you. n neither did she say that in her note. she was crying when she wrote it- doesnt that matter to you?
by saying that it shows howmuch she didnt want to be friends with you and stop going out for a while- but had to coz of her home stress.
dont worry- i can tell 100% she luvs u mad- but shes gone overboard family stress and has taken this step to avoid stressin you out also. ok
tkcr
gud luck
PLEASE READ!!! YOULL NEED IT! LOL
2006-12-26 11:57:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... I think she wants you to step back and just be friends. About the part where she said that things are too stressful at home, maybe her parents don't want her to be in a relationship right then, or maybe her family relationships isn't going well and a boyfriend is too much right now. she said she still loves you, and it might also help if you tried talking to her about it.
2006-12-26 19:56:22 · answer #2 · answered by ^!^angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her and tell her to be straight with you. A note like that is no way to break up with someone and she is being unfair to you. I don't know your relationship at all but this is sending a mixed message. If it didn't say I love you like 80 times I'd say you just got dumped and she was trying to be nice about it. Just ask her and tell her to stop playing games cuz thats what she is doing.
2006-12-26 19:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
god it must have been a great Xmas for u i don't know what to say is there problems at home for her? is she seeing someone else who knows. but her saying she loves u is maybe true but if she really loves u see wouldn't have dumped u like that. i would give it a week to calm down and then sit down and talk to her. ask her why and how, find out the real truth because she is hiding something from you. Find it out and sort it out.
good luck m8
2006-12-26 19:59:00 · answer #4 · answered by Dimittri M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means exactly what she said! she really loves you, but she just doesn't feel like this is the right time for her to have a boyfriend, maybe she just doesn't have enough time for a relationship right now. if you love her, you should accept her decision & break up, at least for now. mabye she just needs a break, you can comfort her, i know she'll appreaciate that! and just be a good friend to her, she obviously really cares about you! GOOD LUCK & don't let this girl go!
2006-12-26 19:50:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a "Dear John" letter to me. She is trying to break it to you softly by telling you she still loves you, but doesnt want to be with you. How lame. Get rid of her and find someone who REALLY loves you and won't break up with you by writing a stupid letter.
2006-12-26 19:51:23 · answer #6 · answered by dewdrop034 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What it means is your a loser, that she really doesnt love you... Maybe your to clingy, maybe your just a bad guy.... you should just get over it and find another one... maybe change your life, shower once in awhile and get back out there and stop crying over this... maybe this is why she left you, you cry over stupid stuff.... well now that you realize you suck, i hope you had a good holiday
2006-12-26 19:58:40 · answer #7 · answered by FFTLffaf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't want to be with you...the stress and can't have a bf right now are just loads of crap. My guess is that she likes someone else.
2006-12-26 19:49:41 · answer #8 · answered by Moxie Crimefighter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is telling you , she only wants to be friends right now and she feels that you guys rushed into a relationship that she wasn't ready for. it is best to remain a friend and ya never know she may change her mind at some point good luck
2006-12-26 19:48:32 · answer #9 · answered by mistyriver69 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I think she loves u alot but I think that she has some problems with her family about that matter or something like that.
But she really do love u!
2006-12-26 19:50:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋