We want to sleep together. the only thing is that i'm virgin and he's not. plus he has a gf in another country but i still find him attractive and want to do it with him. What are ways to protect myself from getting pregnant?
2006-12-26 11:45:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Best way is not to sleep with him. If he already has a girlfriend, you should respect that and he should be man enough to say no to you.
2006-12-26 11:49:38 · answer #1 · answered by tko43078 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once you sleep with, you will become the second fiddle next to his girlfriend. She will always come first over you, because you know about her and she does not know about you. Plus, once the deed is done, you are no longer friends but lovers. The friendship will be over forever, and can never get that back, your relationship will never be the same. The best way to protect yourself from getting pregnant is NOT to have sex, and the best way to keep a friend is NOT to have sex with them. I am sure you don't want to lose him over one night of reckless sex, which is exactly what it will be because you are still a virgin and does not always feel good for a girl for the first time. Think it over for a long time before you just give yourself over to some guy who is not going to devote all his attention to you and not his other girlfriends. Is this really the way you want to have a relationship with some guy. You are giving him the wrong message that it is OK for him to sleep with other girls, just as long as he comes back to you. Sounds cheap.
2006-12-26 11:55:14 · answer #2 · answered by Girls M 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You guys have feelings for each other but yet you wanna maintain that best-friend thingy which u both fear may disappear if u go deeper than being best buddies. Actually the relationship will be beautiful if u guys can look beyond that. For an everlasting relationship and marriage with till death do us part to happen, you will need both love and the friendship to confide and communicate. Not the type of self-centered love but other-centered love found in friendship and courtship. You guys already have that. Just move towards the next natural & mutual step and continue that frienship & love.
2016-05-23 09:06:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, this guy has a gf and still wants to get with you ? You know this and still want to get with him ?
Don't you even value your virginity ? This guy sounds like a jerk and you want to have memories of your first time with him ?
If it's only about sex, then go for it. Use condoms, spermicide and the pill to ensure that you don't get pregnant.
But don't think you'll be having a relationship with him. As soon as his gf comes over or he meets another girl who'll open her legs for him (just like you), he'll probably drop you and go for a new challenge.
2006-12-26 12:44:33 · answer #4 · answered by midnight_lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi lady
U can always have sex with any person of ur choice if both of the partners r ready.Ya the one thing imp is that u will loose ur virginity but that depends on ur wish and desire if u wanna have sex then why bother abt virginity.
If ur going for intercourse pls take care of some stuff.Use precautionary measures like condoms and all.Look to it that the day u have sex is not the period between 12 -16 days after ur periods and all.
Have a safe sex and enjoy
Regards
2006-12-26 19:53:55 · answer #5 · answered by Vicky S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well i think you are a word that starts with a H and you are a home wrecker. you are a Drain on girl power and if you have friends most likely don't trust you or you have friend that are just like you which is known to the "H" group. Why don't you go pray or read a book.
2006-12-26 11:56:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Unless you want to be the "other" woman in a relationship, don't compromise your beliefs and his commitments. Unless of course you see absolutely nothing wrong with cheating. Just don't expect to be the only girl around that he's looking to sleep with. Once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-12-26 11:54:13 · answer #7 · answered by theadram 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree w/ Diane S. You obviously are too young to be having sex w/ anyone if you don't even know how to protect yourself from getting pregnant. I wouldn't do it if I were you.
2006-12-26 11:52:37 · answer #8 · answered by Kim 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you do it you will become more attracted to him and then when hes around his girl you will get envious and jealous so its best if you guys just stay frenz.
2006-12-26 11:52:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop....do not do this...if you don't even know how not to become pregnant, then you are too young to be having sex...especially with someone who is just a friend.....think twice
2006-12-26 11:48:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋