I miss my ex really badly. I know that he doesn't want to stay in a long-distant relationship and neither do i..because they never seem to work. But every love song i listen to like chris brown or watch a love movie like step up or something [ i know it sounds stupid] and i can't seem to get over him! How can i make myself forget about him? How can i move on?
we were together for 10 months!
2006-12-26 11:45:20 · 12 answers · asked by annetteXskye 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We already broke up...sorry i don't think you guys got the picture..or i didn't mention it..
2006-12-26 11:48:24 · update #1
It is hard because you love him. Time will take care of that.
Sometimes we hang on to love thinking that we can't move on. And the hanging on is sometimes an artifical way to love.
Your mind needs to activly let go and move on.
Date again.
Hang out with your friends.
Do something for those less fortunate.
2006-12-26 11:51:39 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fact is...if you truly love each other, a long distance relationship WILL work. The only reason many long distance relationships don't work is because there isn't enough effort made by one or both people in the relationship. If you truly love him than try to make it work, and if he doesn't want to try, than maybe thats the perfect reason to get over him and move on.
2006-12-26 19:51:31 · answer #2 · answered by scarlett 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it takes time but sooner or later you will. people move on after being together a lot longer then 10 months and that is probably why u miss him so much, it might have been different if you guys were together longer. If he is the one for you it will happen. but for now, just hang in there and it will get better. Be strong and good luck.
2006-12-26 19:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Omg! That sounds like me and my ex.I got over him by hangin out with my friends,and flirting with other guys.You guys can still be friends and everything,but I wouldn't want to have a long distance relationship.
2006-12-26 19:49:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In time you'll get over it. You'll never forget him but you'll be able to move on try talking to other boys it helped me good luck.Peace and Blessings
2006-12-26 19:48:13 · answer #5 · answered by outspoken_princess 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on and find someone else.
There is Mr Wright out there some where, just don't settle for any jerk that comes along.....
GOOD LUCK !
2006-12-26 19:59:37 · answer #6 · answered by Bridget 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it's hard...
my ex just broke up with me on November 30th...
i was in florida and it crushed me....
but someone told me something that helped me...
they said that you move on and stay strong.... because what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger....
start dating... or (what i'm hoping for) ask him if he feels the same way
good luck
2006-12-26 19:48:55 · answer #7 · answered by the sign 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep busy babydoll. i know the feelin. i'm going through it too. just read a good book, and when you find yourself thinking of him, call a friend or family member so they can help you to keep your mind off him. good luck.
2006-12-26 19:50:05 · answer #8 · answered by TRULEY MADLY DEEPLEY 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you still love him, you may never get over him, long distance relationships can last, give it a try.
2006-12-26 19:47:25 · answer #9 · answered by jeanjean 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why get over him when you still have feelings for him? It doesn't have to be long distance forever.
2006-12-26 19:47:15 · answer #10 · answered by wizard of stealth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋