What would u do if your family doesnt like your bf due to difference of status and standards in studies?
2006-12-26 11:39:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
status and standards in studies??? What does that mean? Do you love your bf and your family. Is it YOUR entire family that does not like him or is it a parent, parents?
If your MOM doesn't like him, it's probably due to the fact that she thinks you need to marry a guy who will have a "profitable" future and not some "loser" in her opinion. In which case, you need to look at him with "love" or is it "rebellion against a dominating parent."
If it is your parents, it is possible, they see something in his character that you are not seeing.
If it is your whole family and they are not "skewed" in opinion by the parents. You need to carefully consider they may see something that you don't.
Never go against the entire family.
2006-12-26 11:46:59 · answer #1 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're still young - under 20, I wouldn't worry too much because you may not be with this same bf.
If you're an adult, then you may have to talk things over with your family about your bf. Explain to them what attracts you to him and his quality that they may overlooked. Remember, you're the one that may some day end up with him; not your family.
2006-12-26 11:51:22 · answer #2 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are the person who go out with that boy, your family doesnt know as well as you do. So you have to make up you mind, is it worth to give a shot for the boy....good luck
2006-12-26 11:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by monroe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my family never liked my boyfriend, then i married him. lol. it took them awhile to realize he is a great person, a great father, a great supporter, etc... now they love. Guess what i got both out it, a family and a great husband. you do what your heart tells u to do, your family will end up loving him too.,
2006-12-26 11:44:26 · answer #4 · answered by jeanjean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never give up your family for your bf....he may not last but your family will always be your family...try to find a compromise...good luck
2006-12-26 11:41:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love makes you blind, where as your family can see clearly. Trust their judgment. You can ignore them for now, but you will see later that they were right. Save yourself the trouble.
2006-12-26 11:43:14 · answer #6 · answered by tko43078 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your Family.
2006-12-26 11:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would do what I felt was best for me and what I needed, even if my family or boyfriend disapproved. Your love life is YOUR love life...not anyone else's.
2006-12-26 11:46:03 · answer #8 · answered by scarlett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in that boat and my family cannot choose aho i want to love and all i mean i really know that because we have our ups and downs and he is not perfect and all but he is very nice and special and all and no one is perfect and i really mean that take if your family is right tell them to let you figure it out yourself and all.
2006-12-26 11:43:44 · answer #9 · answered by crystal b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mother HATED my last girlfriend for so many reasons...
u shouldnt care about what your family likes or dislikes about your boyfriend because you love the person for who they are....
besides... your family isn't dating him right?!?!?
good luck
2006-12-26 11:43:51 · answer #10 · answered by the sign 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋