I sent a good friend of mine an email we have slept together a few times and he said it was too weird but since then we have got closer as mates and last time we slept together he said there was no weirdness sooo as its christmas i sent him a slide show like the scene from love actually with the cards when hes on doorstep etc and well not heard anything hes txt me a few times over christmas like normal so now I dont know if he had it or read it or if i should re send or even ask him??? help lol
2006-12-26 11:13:25 · 19 answers · asked by mary 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him to check his email.
2006-12-26 11:16:45 · answer #1 · answered by yowhatdoyouwant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely he was a little freaked by it and doesnt want to say anything, either that or he hasnt seen it. I would carry on like normal and then ask him when you see him in person. Be careful of "friends with benefits" relationships though, they can backfire badly, make sure you trust this guy, I did it and the guy is using it for emotional blackmail.
2006-12-26 11:18:11 · answer #2 · answered by prettyflower17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you sending your 'mate' lovey dovey e-mails? That's what it was wasn't it? If you want your mate to be more than a mate then sending him a lovey dovey e-mail is NOT the way to do it. Men tend not to do lovey dovey. They don't speak the same language as women.
Ask if he got the e-mail. Tell him why you sent it.
Good Luck.
Sparky x
2006-12-26 11:32:44 · answer #3 · answered by bigcitygirl_uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u sent it a while back then its best nt 2 do nefink at all... he may have but dousnt want to mention it. however if you sent it only like a day ago, you could re-send it and then if he does ask u y... u could say that it sent twice due to a bad link or something like that- which could then lead onto other convo such as "did u like it?" etc...
2006-12-26 11:17:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you ask him if it had arrived. Have a second mail ready to go and when he says yes and he likes it - Bingo then send the second show and away you go
Good Luck RTC
2006-12-26 12:11:14 · answer #5 · answered by raythecat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and talk to him or arrange to meet him. It sounds like both of you have mixed feelings and the sooner you talk about it and get it out in the open the better it will be. good luck
2006-12-26 11:17:03 · answer #6 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You defantly should ask about it be like oh did u like the slide show i sent u
gd luck
2006-12-26 11:16:42 · answer #7 · answered by amber j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id maybe leave it a couple of days then just ask and be honest. if your that close and youve been intimate and trusting enough to sleep with each other then whats one little embarrasing question gonna hurt?
2006-12-26 11:17:13 · answer #8 · answered by cookie 85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus Christ, learn to use some punctuation. I'd try to help you but it's too much work trying to read through the run-on sentences.
2006-12-26 11:17:31 · answer #9 · answered by Creampoof737 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just mention it in a conversation..like did you get any good emails recently?
2006-12-26 11:16:19 · answer #10 · answered by Christie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darlin' don't worry......I like that scene from love actually....really sweet...but he probably feels that maybe he would've sent you it or somett....Hun it's been what two days! chill out and relax he likes you.....honest you'll see every thing'll be fine and good luck babe....
2006-12-26 11:22:54 · answer #11 · answered by JackLove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋