The three guys that I have dated all have popped in and out of my life. They all seem to struggle with the fact that they love me and even have tried to get back with me years after I have moved on. They have all said that I am the type of woman that they would like to marry. So why would they leave? And then why do they think that I would still want to be with them after they walked out on me? How do I meet mature, non-flakes? Seriously? Anyone been through this or have advice. I'm almost 25 and I'm frustrated with this...
2006-12-26 11:12:27 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the sex must have been bad.
2006-12-26 11:17:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad news.
You know how to follow manlaw while a lot of your peers, both MALE and FEMALE, are struggling with MANLAW.
When you can move on and stop living in the past, you free yourself from the bondage and the shackles of bad relationships.
Men assume that you will take them back because they fail to realize that you follow MANLAW. It is very rare to find a woman who understand smanlaw so early in life.
Men assume that you will take us back because we believe that time remains STILL for you when we are trying to figure out what just happened.
Yes, it's selfish, but it's the nature of man.
If you want to find men well versed in manlaw, try dating men 7-10 years your senior.
2006-12-26 12:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to work on yourself and what you want in a man. Read some good books on healthy relationships and then rethink your list of what you want in a man. I've found some great books that helped me work things out. I was in the same situation as you. The man I ended up marrying (18 years ago), was very different from the men I had previously dated. I married him because he fit the list I had worked up. We have been very happy. Good luck.
2006-12-26 11:24:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you prayed to the ONE who created you, and has this answer you need?
The good Lord made you as you are, and has someone who is perfect for you. Have you asked him?
Just try it, and see what happens. You have nothing to lose, and if this works, it will be of HIS choosing, and HE makes no mistakes.
2006-12-26 11:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you date flakes because thats the type of guys you are atracted to
2006-12-26 11:30:15 · answer #5 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋