So many people have boyfriends and girlfriends but I have no one - I'm so lonely - I want a boyfriend - my mother is bad luck - she said that If I become picky I'll never find anyone - and thing she say is true and I hate that !
2006-12-26 11:11:50 · 12 answers · asked by Jen I 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try getting off the internet and going out somewhere. It also might help if you stop feeling sorry for yourself.
2006-12-26 11:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by Katie T 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Reject her curse, literally. There is power of life and death in the tongue. The blessing of the father was continuously sought throughout the bible. Look at Jacob and Esau! If only parents were more careful with their children. Your mother, although possibly unwittingly, has put negativity into the ethers against you. The good news is you can break her curse with your own blessing and the will of God.
BE PICKY! You DESERVE to get what you want and God will give it to you. Just ask him. You will receive your blessing when the time is right and YOU are right for it. It will not be ONE SECOND LATE!
In the meantime, work on being the person you most want to become. I get lonely too, but I'm waiting for my blessing. After so many failed relationships I now realize that seeking it myself just delayed it.
God bless!
2006-12-26 19:23:25 · answer #2 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are suppose to be picky. dont listen to your mom. also a boyfriend doesnt complete you. find something to do with your spare time and perhaps you wont be lonely and you will probaly find someone there. dont focus on it. i haven't had a relationship in 2 yrs. i am not lonely.
2006-12-26 19:15:28 · answer #3 · answered by Waldorf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get off of the computer and find one. How old are you 16? Sooo lonely. Maybe you are a pain in the a$$ from moaning too much. Finally have someone in your life? give me a break.
2006-12-26 19:15:26 · answer #4 · answered by Jimfix 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not that you should lower your standards but you have to learn to except that people are not perfect and accept them for who they are tell yourself you will not be so picky and learn to let at least some of them go
2006-12-26 19:22:40 · answer #5 · answered by PhillyDude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont stop being picky --- there is someone there for you they will find you when you least expect it and in the most unusual place
2006-12-26 19:19:02 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to stop looking and let it find you. I'm sorry to say this, but it's true, love will find you in the wierdest places and when you least expect it.
2006-12-26 19:15:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
same here but my mom isnt like that though she says i will find someone and theres always someone out there for eveyone so theres someone out there just keep on looking! LOOK DEEP!
2006-12-26 19:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by Brooke.Jonas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If no one is asking you out then go up to some guy you like and ask him out. Or you could just keep waiting and maybe someone will ask you to be their gf...eventually.
2006-12-26 19:14:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, you are not going to get a boyfriend sitting in front of the computer and sulking and wishing for one
2006-12-26 19:31:29 · answer #10 · answered by zether 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋