on saturdays I spend the night with a good friend. Her brother hangs out w/ us sometimes.this saturday night, after dancing and pillow fighting, we turn out the basement lights and i laid upside down on the couch, when he comes and lays beside me. she crashes on the floor in front of us. he takes my hand and starts playin w/ it. we r all talking so i dont pay it much mind. he put my hand over "himself" twice but i dont even realize it until later. then i feel somthing warm in my hand and realize its his "head". I didnt say anything. later, when we r in her room watching movies(shes sleep), he pulls out "Himself". he puts it back and we get back to the movie. the rest of the night he massaged my back, and all after breakfast he was all over me. I was laying down, and he stayed snuggled up beside me w/ his arms wraped around me.
he isnt a bad guy, or weird or anything. our familys hang out.he goes to my church.his rents love me. Whats was he trying to say??? Ii dont understand. help me
2006-12-26 11:09:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know how old you are, but if you both are in your teens his hormones are simply raging. He's attracted to you and obviously wants to take your friendship to the next level. If you like him, see about having a talk with him about it. Respect yourself and don't let him take advantage of you unless ya'll are going to be boygriend/girlfriend. :-) (Well, don't let him take advantage of you at all, but you know what I mean). If things are getting serious you need to lay some ground rules. Above all, take care of yourself and use some prevention to avoid getting pregnant.
2006-12-26 11:14:27 · answer #1 · answered by gabound75 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, looks like he has no problem directing your hands to where he wants them to be. Make a decision quick if this is what you want or you are just putting up with it for whatever reason. If you don't think he is boyfriend material or just horny and wants to get laid, then make sure you keep his busy hands off you. Be firm and say that you are not comfortable and not interested.
2006-12-26 19:13:28 · answer #2 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
To heck with what he's trying to say what are you doing allowing a guy to take such liberties. The guy wants sex and if you continue to let him do what he wants, you are in danger of becoming pregnant. Your parents need to keep you from staying at this house because you've been sexually abused and that's a crime.
2006-12-26 19:13:37 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to say that he is horny and full of hormones. If a guy really likes you, there is no way he would treat you like this. His behavior is bordering on sexual assault. The guy is horny and you are a target of opportunity for him to get off. If he had deeper feelings for you, he would talk to you and make sure you had similar feelings.
2006-12-26 19:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by Moesha 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all hunny hes a guy and hes trying to tell you all he wants to do is have sex with you! Obvously you must like it because you didn't say anything to him or make him stop. Its called sexual harrassement sweetheart! He is a pig and needs to be put in his place. If you dont he will more than likely try to take it further...ie...rape you! And unless you do something now...ie...dont let him do that to you...it will happen. It doesn't matter what kind of guy he looks to be from the outside.
it sounds like you let people walk all over you and he knows it, so what is a pig like him going to do? Take advantage of that.
Serously stop it now if you don't like it...he's not looking for a relationship...just trying to get in your pants! And you must not like it cuz if you did you wouldn't of asked.
2006-12-26 19:18:39 · answer #5 · answered by nina b 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
do you like him maybe you should talk to him and see woud it hurt our friendship and all or was it just something that happened and all i mean i would deffiently talk to him doyou liek him or anything anfd all di di you enjouy him if you let it happen you are just as guilty that actually happen to me to one and we statred agrgueing noe im not friends with the girl or guy becaues he ,ade something up like i was friends with her to get to him and all and i mean i just didnt worry about it because if she wanted to belirve the truth becasuse i was going over there way before
2006-12-26 19:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by crystal b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong this is a sick bad guy and you should stay away from him. You didn't mention the age difference but my guess is he is older than you. Again "DANGER"
2006-12-26 19:14:38 · answer #7 · answered by 4warned 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to say, "Touch my junk." I don't know how old you guys are, but he definitely is trying to get some action off you.
2006-12-26 19:12:05 · answer #8 · answered by Aloe-ish-us 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well maybe he likes you and was tryin to express his feelins....nt the perfect wae to express bt still you could alwaes talk 2 him about it
2006-12-26 19:13:02 · answer #9 · answered by Naima 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, obviously he likes you...and he was a little horny! well...maybe not a little. but he likes you and thinks you're liking him. you should talk about it to him. Tell him how you feel. if you don't think he's bad then give it a shot!
2006-12-26 19:15:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋