quite a few homosexuals "look gay"
if you saw a butch lesbian with short hair and she was wearing masculine clothes, you would know without a doubt she was a lesbian.
but if you saw that same woman with longer hair, and she was dressed in normal female clothes, you would still know.
some gays are quite noticably gay, by the way their face looks and by their general body composure
how could this be if they are not born gay?
2006-12-26 10:56:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
nice observation and you are quite right
i told my friend that a little boy i knew would grow to be homosexual ...
now he is 16 and out
2006-12-26 11:00:55 · answer #1 · answered by Peace 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Some people think they are gay simply for tyhat reaosn as well. They do not fit in very well or have akward bodies and in order to adjust they adopty these defense and coping psychological mechanisms.
Most lesbians have some odd body shapes, , skinny legs, no butt, somewhat masculine looking geometry of the face, they just do what they think they have to sometimes.
Another issue is mental and emotional, not just physcal.
Sexual thought is not so closed a thing, as the body is. The mind can wander and entertain ideas that are not in keeping with the body design. This is because of imagination. The scripture states that as a man thinketh so is he. The mind controls a lot, people can think they are the king of England and not be, people can think they will get along better if they pretend they are what they are not, someone can think the are homosexual , that doesn't mean they are, although strictly speaking they are if they think they are , mentally that is, but still not bodily. Bodily you are male or female, without taking into account hermaphrodites.
Another factor is cultural conditioning and promotion of this type of exploration within society now.
But again sexual deviancy has been around for a long time, that is why in the bible you will find prohibitions on certain acts, because the bible iswritten by a spirit that is totally awareof what men and women are capable of in terms of lusting.
But we should not allow our minds to to be thus confused.
God made us male and female and this is a happy blessing , this makes family and life. It is the way of God.
Anything outside of that is useless, worthless, meaningless, and of no public benefit whatsoever, while the way of God, evident in nature and design of our bodies is beneficial and blessed.
By the way this is one reaosn why people fight against religion because it is an authority that confirms what our eyes and brain reveal to us , that male is meant for female.
One does not have to define themselvs as homosexual because they find that they have an arousal at these kind of erotic thoughts, they are human, and as such are susceptible to such, but some are more open to it than others. Meaning they will open themselves up to it and let it happen.So in my opinion no one is gay or homosexual, they just act that way, they are addicted perhaps to such erotic stimulation. But a holy Creator forbids this as going against truth as manifest. Therefore it is sin
2006-12-26 19:13:39 · answer #2 · answered by Socinian F 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This can't be a real question.
You're just repeating the stereotype. People look as they do because of socializing. They're not born wearing masculine clothes and short hair. Plenty of lesbians are extremely feminine and dress the part. Some aren't. PLenty of gay guys are very masculine and are in no way obviously gay. Some are. It's a personality thing. Not a trait that's inborn in all homosexuals.
If people aren't born stupid, then why do so many of them sound stupid and ask dumb questions?
2006-12-26 19:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I am sorry I just can't follow the idea just because someone has short hair and is a little boyish is lesbian or straight. We shouldn't Label them.
That's like saying my son who plays concert level piano was in plays all the time and could sing beautiful tenor to bass is Gay
want you to know he has two beautiful children beautiful wife and home who also sings and dances but has short hair doesn't mean she Lesbian.
Some people are just gifted accept it.
Some days on my days off I wear jeans and a flannel shirt.
doesn't make me butch or lesbian.
Some people are just gifted accept it. Or more masculine It OK.
2006-12-26 19:19:27 · answer #4 · answered by dianehaggart 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why should I care what nature a man is born with? In our silly imaginations do we think it makes a difference? If I am born with a nature to murder am I not a murderer and guilty of the crimes I commit? Is there any difference between sins that God can say this man's sin is righteous? Are we not all sinners and fallen short of the glory of God? What man is righteous and has caused the atonement of Christ to be of no effect? We are all born with a sin nature and all need the atonement of Christ.
2006-12-26 19:08:03 · answer #5 · answered by djmantx 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
o my! you walk in darkness...people ARE born gay so the question is absurd...Look when i was a child and i didnt know anything about sex i was attracted to my male friends at school. Of course at that time i didnt think of it as a sexual attraction.
I am sure this answer is gonna be deleted since i have included in the same answer the words "children" and "sex"
2006-12-26 19:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by whoknows 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
On the contrary, people ARE born gay, but some choose a hetero lifestyle.
2006-12-26 19:19:14 · answer #7 · answered by sudonym x 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, they're born gay. You can usually tell by the way they walk, talk, pronounce, and even stand. Any person with common sense can know they were born that way.
2006-12-26 19:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by cynical 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe people are born gay. I lean toward the neurohormonal theory. I'm Catholic, if that is relevant, being as this is under Religion & Spirituality.
2006-12-26 19:09:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
lesbians arent born with masculine clothes and straight women arent born with long hair. people choose to cut their hair or what cltohes they wear.
2006-12-26 18:58:53 · answer #10 · answered by Brad 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
They still have the right organs to determine if they are men or women
2006-12-26 19:00:00 · answer #11 · answered by weezee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋