I have been dating this guy since August and I have not met his parents yet. He has been talking about me meeting them, but it has not happened yet. He has been around my parents quite a few times and my daughter quite a few times. Things are really serious with this guy and I can see myself married to this guy. I just do not understand what is making him not take me to meet his parents.
Any ideas as to why this might be happening?
2006-12-26 10:47:41 · 16 answers · asked by mydds07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for the responses! I would be the first woman he has taken home to meet his parents and his parents do not speak very good English. They do know about me and his mom has even called me once (looking for him).
I guess that family is so important to me and I know his family is VERY important to him too and so I would like to finally meet them.
2006-12-26 10:58:22 · update #1
1- He's just not that into you right now and doesn't see the need for it. It's only been 6 months, so you're rushing things if you already see yourself married to him
or-
2-His parents are absolutely morons and he's embarrassed by them.
You know which it is.
2006-12-26 10:52:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure that my son will never bring a girlfriend home to meet me - not until they've been married at least ten years that is (lol). Boys are weird when it comes to these things and parents make such a big deal out of meeting the girlfriend. He's probably dreading the moment. Just be patient.
2006-12-26 18:51:24 · answer #2 · answered by mJc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just think of it this way.....you'll never have to struggle with in-laws. LOL :) JK I don't think that meeting his parents is something that can be rushed. Obviously he doesn't want you meeting his parents yet for whatever reason. I wouldn't let it bother me. Let him set up a meeting when he chooses. But until that happens, go on with life.
2006-12-26 18:52:41 · answer #3 · answered by silver_orangecheetah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked him?
That would be number one on my list...however gently.
August is only....4 months into a relationship.
Maybe he isn't as close to his parents as you are too yours?
What are his feelings on marriage? Is he talking about marriage?
I would give it more time.....don't rush things....
It will happen when the timing is right.
Best wishes.....For a Wonderful New Year!
2006-12-26 18:54:33 · answer #4 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No real idea,but if it's a problem now,maybe you shouldn't be dreaming of marriage with this guy.It doesn't sound like the two of you are on the same page.Try to see the situation as it really is and not how you wish it to be.
2006-12-26 18:52:22 · answer #5 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly his parent live far away and it is a promlem to get you there. If all else fails ask him to call his parents while you are there and put his phone on speaker. Have a nice friendly chat. Good luck.
2006-12-26 18:52:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes just worried about you meeting them or hes not qute ready for it yet.
there may be something he doesnt want you to know about yet, im not saying this fodefinite bt its a possibility.
just ask him when you're going to meet them and if he has a problem with something
2006-12-26 18:51:12 · answer #7 · answered by mowgligurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe his parents don't know about you yet. Maybe he thinks they are weird or something and is wary of introducing you to them. ASK !!! If ya gonna marry this guy ya need to open teh lines of communication NOW.
2006-12-26 18:51:56 · answer #8 · answered by Deb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u have only been dating since august
Some guys take a little longer to warm up enough to bring u home
2006-12-26 18:50:30 · answer #9 · answered by Sage Elizabethhh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't worry, maybe meeting the parents is a really big deal to him.
2006-12-26 18:50:55 · answer #10 · answered by stinkypinky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋