I would want that girl love me like i am. I don't want to be fat
2006-12-26 10:44:14 · 19 answers · asked by flaco80 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry, skinny man
2006-12-26 10:49:01 · update #1
She is not worth your torment if this girl can't look beyond your frame. And even if you were fat... chances are she might still not want you. So maintain your desired body type and look into the horizon for a girl who will want you in and out.
2006-12-26 10:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking unhealthy is not attractive. However, she may not like you even if you did look healthy.
When you love yourself enough to take proper care of yourself, girls will see that. What they see now is someone who doesn't care about his health, or who seemingly is very ill, and who will not be able to be there for them in the future if they had a relationship with you.
Perhaps you should look into why you enjoy being at such an unhealthy weight. There may be a psychological problem there.
2006-12-26 19:08:44 · answer #2 · answered by j s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's only going to love you for what you look like, she's not the girl for you.
Plus, if you're 5'11" and 99lbs....you're beyond skinny, you're amaciated. You need to gain some weight. Gaining at least 20-30 pounds isn't going to make you fat, you'll still be classified as "underweight". If you gained 100lbs that would be adverage but you definitly need to not be that small.....maybe she's afraid to be with you because you'll waste away.
maybe she just doesn't want you because you're not the right guy for her. You can't make someone love you.
2006-12-26 18:47:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find this too, like, guys who are rounder with curly hair go for me when I find them the two most unattractive parts of me (I've been told I'm now skinny but I still see myself as fat)...it's just luck in part I think. Keep looking, I know how frustrating this is. somebody out there will be into you and you'll be into them back.
2006-12-26 19:35:20 · answer #4 · answered by JDA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude 99 lbs at 5' 11" isn't skinny that is extremely sick like concentration camp sick.
2006-12-26 18:54:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to see a doctor, now!!!
Are you hungry, are you starving yourself?
Any girl who saw you would think you had aids. That is reason enough to stay away. Have you been tested?? See a doctor and get yourself healthy.
You sound to be anorexic. If you are, you look fine, even fat to yourself, but scare the hell out of anyone who sees you.
This is no joke, Get busy and get to work on saving your life.
2006-12-26 18:51:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever considered that maybe the reason she doesn't want you is NOT because you are skinny. Maybe you just aren't her type or she will like you in the future. I really doubt that she doesn't like you just because you are skinny. Plus, even if she never likes you, remember that infamous saying....."There are plenty other fish in the sea."
2006-12-26 18:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by silver_orangecheetah 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably likes more muscular guys. From your description, you're a stick. gaining some weight (20-30 lbs.) would probably help. You wouldn't be fat and you wouldn't be a stick. Eat some food for pete's sake!
2006-12-26 18:55:04 · answer #8 · answered by Locogirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably 2 skinny 4 her.
2006-12-26 18:52:06 · answer #9 · answered by candylicker_2010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is not the right one for you.
Love is not measured by beauty, but by a person's true heart.
The right girl will someday come along and she won't see your physical, but for who you are.
Don't rush into anything, be patient and it will come when you least expected
2006-12-26 18:52:07 · answer #10 · answered by mayaprincess68 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋