okay well i really like this guy and i want him 2 know a little bit but i dont wanna tell him, i wanna flirt with him so he'lll like me too! any ideas on what 2 say or do!
2006-12-26 10:42:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Flirting is fun but don't waste too much time cuz he just may get away because flirting can tease a man to "do" something about it. I would suggest the usuals such as eye contact, compliments, questions about himself and asking "what kind of girls he likes" then hit him with direct questions like, "what do you think about girls that give you eye contact, compliments, and ask you questions about the type of girls you like? Would you think they are flirting with you?" He has to answer. So be very direct without being obvious till the end.
2006-12-26 11:06:54 · answer #1 · answered by MeHurdu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o-k, I am sorry but I see this question on here alot!! Why is it sooo hard for you ladies to just have some back bone and actually show the way you feel for real?? Why does it always have to come from some half a-- attempt??
Its no wonder so many guys are confused these days.
Look, If you like the guy then do the flirt but also use your words and what you really are to show what you want.Girls are always accusing men of being untruthful and wishy washy.Its way more apparent to me to be the other way around.
Whats the worst that can happen? he wont feel the same about you and turn you down? So What, that just means you can move on without all the mind games and find someone who does.
In other words stop being a chicken in life and go for what you want cause no ones going to get it for you.
2006-12-26 18:48:56 · answer #2 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well this should help you out....
Approach him and start a conversation, but don't make it too obvious that you like him. If he approaches you, look him in the eyes as a sign of affection and confidence.
Try to touch him whenever you can, on his arm or wherever else. Don't make it too obvious.
Play with your hair or clothing.
Once you've got his attention, look him in the eyes and smile. If he smiles back, slowly look down, and repeat. Guys like girls who can show off their smile.
Don't make it too obvious when he's around his friends, unless you know that he likes you.
Laugh with him, and help him to feel comfortable around you.
Find a reason to whisper something in his ear.
Don't try to be someone you aren't. You attract the kind of person you are. Don't pretend to be a sports type when you're really a poet.
Talk about what you have in common, and ask questions about what you don't. People love to feel like they're interesting. (And heck, they probably are, too.)
Say his name a lot. This shows you're interested in who he is. Give him a nickname, so you two have a little inside joke to share. Most likely, he'll give you one, too!
2006-12-26 18:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by Boss 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes..
1. Make sure he sees you looking at him pleasantly with a slight smile.
2. Look but dont stare, look away shyly.
3. Find reasons to be around him, so he can come up to you if he wants to.
4. If he doesnt then you have to start conversation with him about something, whatever, but make sure you get him talking so you can start the "why" game.
-whatever he says ask "why is that",, or really wow..."why do you like dogs...or whatever"
5. touch his arm or something when you laugh.
If he likes you he will keep it up, if not then no harm no foul.
2006-12-26 18:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by Peter X. Long 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask his opinion and be open for any answer. Ask him what he likes in a woman... and ask him about his interests... let him be funny, also find an excuse to talk to him without others around, it helps brake the ice by asking directions and maybe he will show you himself. I don't know your age but talking helps.
Also it is nice to be short on your answers to start with, so that he can think about you between seeing you.
2006-12-26 18:50:09 · answer #5 · answered by Digital Audio Video Servicing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time you shouldnt have to say anything. Its all about body language. Touch your face or your neck gently and make eye contact. That way he knows that you are approachable and you want to be touched. Give him sultry looks. Or just compliment him like- that shirt makes you look built. Or even makeup your owns flirty ways to make him realize it.
2006-12-26 18:49:53 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal kitten 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile, laugh at anything he says that is remotely funny and keep touching him on the arm when you're talking to him.
If you just know who he is and don't talk with him much yet, then make eye contact when you walk past or are around him and smile at him.
2006-12-26 18:45:24 · answer #7 · answered by Jason 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when in regular conversation with him (about anything) touch his hand or arm. not hold, but just graze or quickly grasp. give him cute little smiles and winks across the class or campus. get his number and just text him to get to know him better, plus cell texting is the easiest way to flirt. good luck!
2006-12-26 18:46:25 · answer #8 · answered by J Balla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that hard to flirt with a guy. All you have to do is give him some serious eye contact and he's all over you...unless he's gay...or not that into you. Why can't girls figure that out.
2006-12-26 18:45:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm....
It depends on the guy and his personallity.
Talk to him when you see him, stand next to him/close to him (he'll get the idea eventually).
Personally, I like assertive girls. If you think he won't totally freak out, tell him you like him. Otherwise, just find that happy medium between ignoring and stalking, and he should catch on eventually.
Oh, and Good Luck!
2006-12-26 18:46:44 · answer #10 · answered by franklin_phil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋