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He lives in N.j and i live in N,yc =(
I love him alot i mean like soooo much im going to go see him in 2 months. I afrade that when i go there that he's going to be like..With some other girl.. =( not kool
Because when i call him he's ALWAYS on the phone..And he wont tell me who it is.. =( And he never calls me back..
=) I hope u can help me... Thanks so much
2006-12-26 10:40:41 · 16 answers · asked by Jesi_the infamsous_ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
then why are you still calling him?? sounds like you need to move on, cause he already did...
2006-12-26 10:43:42 · answer #1 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok this is sooo off base but you spelled "afraid" wrong. Ok you live like 1 1/2 -2 hours away which is no time when driving, so why are you waiting for 2 months to see him? And if he does not want to tell you who he is on the phone with when you call- that's a red flag right there!! If you feel like you are putting more time into the relationship then he is... then he is not worth you time.
2006-12-26 10:47:21 · answer #2 · answered by I'm Michael Jackson BAD!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well long distance relationships arrnt ment for everyone, maybe you should start meeting some other people and then when you go see him in 2 months just see what will happen between you to
2006-12-26 10:43:43 · answer #3 · answered by ஐ♥Sabine♥ஐ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was in ur position i would think the same, especially when he doesn't tell me who is he on the phone with or never calls me back. but don't just go let him know that u r coming to visit and listen to his response.
2006-12-26 10:51:50 · answer #4 · answered by sweet143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just not that into you and has probably met a girl in NJ. You should meet a boy in NYC and enjoy your life. Cancel your planned visit, and stop calling him,
2006-12-26 10:44:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to let him go. If he never makes time for you why should you trek back and forth from nyc to nj to see him? Love is a strong emotion but don't let it make you a fool.
2006-12-26 10:43:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, all i can tell you is my brother is in love with a girl in illinois... we live in Switzerland. and from reading notes to each other on their Xanga's, they seem to love each other more because they have been apart so long. but their love is so unique... i don't think either of them could 'move one' to someone else. it is real love.
just ask yoursef this question: is it real love or just high school drama? then you will know whether you should love him or not.
2006-12-26 10:46:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well iot souinds like he may already be with someone else, those or usually the signs. so try not to get your hopes up to high, and try to back off a little maybe your smothering him. if he doesn't call you back then that means he doesn'[t want to talk to you.
2006-12-26 10:45:01 · answer #8 · answered by juicy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just go and be ur self and if there is sum1 else than u find sum1 else 2 make him jealous! and if push comes 2 shove .....Lie! a little white lie never hurts any1! it might make him want u ! good luck! hope u 2 r still friends!
2006-12-26 10:44:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No one can make the decision but you...you'll know for sure in two months if it is true or not.
2006-12-26 10:48:03 · answer #10 · answered by summera76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋