I've dated on-line one guy, e told me he liked me so very much but then just stopped replying my letters and going on msn! I've written a lot of letters to him where I asked him to stay with me but he didn't reply! At first he did, he told he was busy and he that he thought of me but then he stopped... It has passed several monthes and this Christmas as it's such a day of love I decided to write him a Christmas comment on myspace. I've written it in his own language the one I've learnt while we didn't contact... And it was so red and with hearts :S and actually so sweet. If I had recieved it from the worst person in the world I would defenitely reply! But he didn't...
And he has checked his myspace page oly today and besides me there was one other girl who has siply wished him Christmas even after it's over and my comment looks really crazy (being with so many hearts but that was from my heart!) together with hers small... but he didn't reply on her comment too while he ALWAYS replied to her no matter what! I guess that's because he saw my message and that made him think... but anyway I know he won't reply as always and this makes me sad and even angry on myself that I've done this!!! I wanted to change all my names in all messages into bad words after that but decided that will make things worth? How do you think? Am I right? And what can we do when we have a bad mood? Think of this or try to forget? I wonder if we try to forget will it come out later or will it really be forgotten and better not to disturb it!!! And what else interesting... I felt when that guy has read that message!!! I just had a very strong thought of him that moment while I was in the bath and I KNEW that was because he's read that or maybe because he thought of me after reading... And when I came out it appeared to be true... Anyway tell me please everything you think of this! This will help me to come over this I guess... or to think of something else... I even wanted to send a Christmas postcard to this guy as he once gave me his address and I've bought it but didn't send... What do you think about my question and everything else here?
Thank you for your help and for reading!!!
Good luck,
Maria
2006-12-26 10:31:11 · 9 answers · asked by Maria 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
On line relationships are not usually like real life ones. The are based on falsehoods and usually misrepresentation by one or both. I am sorry that you were so hurt but you sound like a nice girl so just chalk this up to experience and although you may feel really hurt you need to move one.
2006-12-26 10:36:08 · answer #1 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey Maria, in this situation they guy just isn't serious. He probably has a short attention span regarding people or has developed an interest elsewhere.
In short, it would be best for you to consider this one of those annoying life lessons and let it go. Let it go. Just remember what happened and learn from your experience.
Of the 4 billion other people in the world, there's probably a huge number who would be thrilled and honored to know you for the fine person you are.
Best of luck to you.
2006-12-26 18:38:42 · answer #2 · answered by Sanctorin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't and dump him out of your heart.
You are special person. Why let him ruin your heart?
You had enough for several months, you've even learned
his language. Yet, he isn't much interested.
Forget him. There are lots of other guys who will treat you better.
Be lonely waiting for him, or look for someone else to whom
you could be someone special and happy to be with.
C'mon Maria, you know you are worthy!!!
2006-12-26 18:40:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he just didnt have time to respond. i do that often even though i almost always relply right away. also, someone sent me one of those this year, but her page was having difficulties letting me comment be back, so i couldnt send one.
remember, it was christmas, and people do things offline on xmas. like with their families.
also, dont get too carried away with online relationships
2006-12-26 18:42:45 · answer #4 · answered by kt! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not into you at all but you are crazy about him. It just make your self miserably. Get a life maria. Move on. Look for other guy.
2006-12-26 18:42:27 · answer #5 · answered by dragon_2877 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's just not that into you. He probably met someone else. Move on, forget him, and stop internet-dating because now you know it's useless. And try to spend much much less time online.
2006-12-26 18:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Internet dating seems easy and convenient but it is the worst dating method in the world. If you don't know now, you will eventually.
2006-12-26 18:40:45 · answer #7 · answered by kicking_back 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sorry the best way is to forget him --- block him delete him but dont bad mouth him because its not worth the effort
move on find someone that will truly care for you
2006-12-26 18:36:51 · answer #8 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you hook up on-line your taking a chance.all i can say is count him as a loss and move on.
2006-12-26 18:36:16 · answer #9 · answered by drkchocolatedeluxe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋