Ok the story goes :
She said she wanted to get ear gauges (6's) and I told her not to. Then she said "stop telling me what to do because I know more about them then you" and she stopped talking to me. Since then she hasnt called or messaged me or anything. I said I was sorry and she ignored it. I dont know what her problem is but I'm thinking about breaking up because shes making me feel bad for a stupid little thing like that. What should I do?
2006-12-26 10:22:56 · 31 answers · asked by MiamiGuy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she sounds a little pathetic, but she may have been pissed off about something else.
if she isnt answering the phone to you or replying to messages what else can you do?
you've tried to apologize, so just wait for her to come back to you, if she doesnt well then forget it~!
2006-12-26 10:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by mowgligurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd look beyond what you are asking......
She has a right not to listen to your thoughts and feelings however you are entitled to them.
Sharing is a major thing is a relationship. You listen and share and in the end you make your own decision.
However you should respect one another while doing so.
Why did you tell her not to? Do you not like the guages, do you find them unattractive? I understand where you are coming from....but if she doesn't care and all she is thinking about is what she wants ......its her choice....
You can't control her however you can control your feelings and what you like and dislike....if this is a turn off....maybe its time to move on.....
You gave her your opinion you didn't forbid her to do so. or did you?
Don't ever feel bad for having a opinion we are all entitled to have one......However if you were trying to control that is totally different.
Look into your heart is this someone you want to be with....Communication is a major key in every relationship.
Playing games shouldn't be
Best wishes
2006-12-26 10:34:24 · answer #2 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you two can't weather a small argument and it gets blown out of proportion to its importance, then yes - breaking up is a fair thing to do. There are others to go out with, and the whole point of dating is to try things out. This inherently means some people won't work together. So - don't despair about this...just be glad it didn't go further.
2006-12-26 10:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by twicewise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep it in perspective that what you are mad about is not the dumb holes she's putting in her ears but the lack of respect for you. Let her know that is what pissed you off. Maybe you can work it out and maybe you can't but at least let her know you won't put up with being treated like that. Wait until you've cooled off too because she won't listen if you're pissed off plus you'll say things you may not mean.
2006-12-26 10:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by Ella727 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't own her or any part of her body. She can(and obviously will) do as she pleases. If ya don't like them, tuff. She has carried this a bit far if ya ask me(which ya did...lol)
You are right, it is stupid to fight over something so trivial. You 2 have a long way to go to have a lasting relationship if you dont speak for days over something this minute. (pronounced :my newt)
2006-12-26 10:28:41 · answer #5 · answered by Deb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should keep busy and have some good times with your friends...
it seems like its only bringing you both down since she won't speak to you.
have a good time with your life and dont worry everything happens for a reason...bless yourself and your future, see a movie a with friend or two, get it out of your mind- unless she brings it up again talk to her, in the meantime just dont stress over it and enjoy your life, your young, enjoy it. it really all depends on the context of your life.
2006-12-26 10:30:01 · answer #6 · answered by TruthSeeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if thats the only reason y u guys are breaking up. dont. u guys can get over this if u really love each other. just try to listen to what she has to say about them & then let her listen to what u think. it will eventually come to a conclusion
2006-12-26 10:27:30 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to talk to her, and tell her how you feel. i am sure you deserve to get treated better than that. Explain to her that she made you feel bad. If she she still ignores you, then maybe things were not meant to be.
2006-12-26 10:27:08 · answer #8 · answered by debra s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she can be so petty over something as stupid as ear guages??? think of how she'll act over more serious matters.
Sorry dude, but your only asking fo trouble if you stick with her.
Good luck!
2006-12-26 10:38:56 · answer #9 · answered by venom! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you young guys need to stop and think about what is on the line. Many of you take these beautiful young women for granted and can't see past yourself. One day you wll regret it.
2006-12-26 10:30:04 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Right 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋