2006-12-26 10:22:06 · 30 answers · asked by Joshua H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get outside and pick one, it`s not so hard :)
2006-12-26 10:23:26 · answer #1 · answered by Apollo 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well, if you want a girlfriend, go out somewhere that you like, like a sporting event, concert, museum, gallery, club, bar, ... wherever you would like to go to have fun. Find a girl there. If you know that you have that one thing in common, it's easy to get into a relationship with that person.
If you really care about her, sweep her off her feet.
Make sure to remember her name so that you don't feel stupid. lol.
Don't, however, remember her ssn, home adress, phone number, pin number, or whatever... and then when she is asked for it on an application or something, tell her out loud what it is. Trust me, it really... pissed me off when a guy did that.
BE HONEST. That's all. Be honest. Honesty is the best policy, and if she can't handle it, she's not worth being with. Some girls like to be lied to, but if you find one who PREFERS honesty, you know you have a good chance of a future with her.
If you aren't looking for a future, make this clear to her. If it's just a one night event, don't let her think it's more. Ways NOT to lead her on : Don't exchange numbers if you won't call her. Don't talk about things you'd like to do in YOUR future.
There's more, if you need to know, just ask me.
I may be a female, but I'm one of the only ones left that will tell you how things really are, and how to decode women.
2006-12-26 18:29:29 · answer #2 · answered by shannon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to look around
then when you spot someone you are interested in start looking at her and even flirt with her then she will catch your eye contact and gesture then the both of you can sit and get to know each other. you can find them at Night Clubs sitting by themselves not interacting with other people, remember work it slow and gradually ask her out on a date you may not get a girl on the first try but keep going do not give up Nervousness may interfere when you meet someone for the first time but try to relax be yourself have fun and stay calm. Take things day by day I hope this helps
2006-12-26 18:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by Melody-Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No big deal. If you are smart and are good around people as in having conversation skills you shouldnt have a prob. You must be a young teen. Hey young teen just be yourself. Be confident and please dont be one of those show off young punks.Nothing makes a girl run by a show off guy that thinks he is Gods answer to girls. That is a real turn off. If you have personality ...dress nice and act civil you shouldnt have a problem in attracting a girl.Be polite to the girls and you shouldnt have a prob. with finding a girl.Good luck .
2006-12-26 18:29:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First find the type of girl that you would wanna date. Dont just go after any girl you see. Some things that always gets me is when a guy says something to make me feel good about myself so try that. Also girls love guys that can make them laugh so try making her laugh. Be nice to her like for example- dont be afriad to talk to her infront of your friends,even if your friends dont like her. Say nice things to her like when you see her with a new hair style then compliment her. Most guys dont compliment girls when they do something new so she will aprecaite it if you say something about it. If your the shy type dont worry about it as long as your at least trying to talk to her I am sure she will apreciate it. If you still cant get a girlfriend dont worry about it because love can surface in unexpected places and at unexpected times. Keep your eyes open for the right girl for you.
2006-12-26 18:41:09 · answer #5 · answered by luvfades 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Tony Soprano
2006-12-26 18:23:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident and independent (as in not needy), funny and nice, and flirt. Find girls in your interest areas with stuff you have in common. Approach girls and don't be scared/intimidated of them, ask them out. I know I liked to be asked out by guys, it's really flattering. Depending on the type of relationship (length/closeness/potential) you're looking for, you may want to work out what you're looking for in a girl and hold back asking out the first one you find. Don't worry if you get knocked back, one's going to say yes, I guarentee it- if you are a good guy.
2006-12-26 18:46:57 · answer #7 · answered by JDA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur lucky u asked and ur lucky im here to answer =] cuz i should kno cuz of my bf and ex bf's. but anyways. the way 4 u to get a gf is talk sweet to them..make them laugh. buy her things..be flirty =] just go out and look for one..find one that DOES NOT have a bf. talk to her for a while..and start giving her hints on asking her out =]
2006-12-26 18:26:49 · answer #8 · answered by krissy0410 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can get a gf by being YOU!if they dont like you then there the ones missing out ... BE YOU
2006-12-26 18:24:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old r u??
If you're in school, ages 18 and under----talk the girl you like. Smile at her in the halls. Give her eye contact. Compliment her and talk to her every chance you get to.
If your older----Talk to a chick wherever you meet her. Flirt, be funny, compliment her, and ask her for her phone number
2006-12-26 18:25:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn some good jokes, because a good sense of humor is always good. but DON'T use pickup lines. Ever. Not even as a last resort.
2006-12-26 18:25:34 · answer #11 · answered by pseudonym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋