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Recently, I found some things on my bf myspace that I did not like(taking girls out to dinners, shows, drinks etc) the main one is he said to some friends that he went on a date with some girl. So i confronted him about this and got upset denying about the date and says these girls are just friends and nothing more. I told him of what I want in this relationship, even mentioned I want to work this out. In the argument he said he does not know if he can be with me now because of all this and needs to think it over. I went to his home to talk but still says he is not giving in and is still thinking it over. 4 days after he calls me(Mon. and says he wants to talk I asked him if tonite is ok for him and says no, then I told him tom. nite (Tues. after 7:30 we can meet somewhere. He agreed. He calls and cancels, and I said whenever you can let me know and we hung up. Been a week since then and he text me saying Merry xmas. What is it? A break up, playing games? He is my 1st, plz help.

2006-12-26 10:20:38 · 10 answers · asked by Lovespell 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

10 answers

it's called a JERK, move on...

2006-12-26 10:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 0 0

I'm sorry to say this, but from what you wrote here, it looks like he doesn't want you anymore and has been looking for a way out. So he took this argument, which was perfectly solvable and made it into this huge thing, using that as an excuse to finish off the relationship.

I strongly suggest letting this one go and finding someone better. It's hard to let go of a relationship, especially when it's your first one, but he's made things perfectly clear.

Start doing more social things, go out with your friends more, join a club or a charity you care about. You'll meet great new people in no time.

Good luck.

2006-12-26 10:29:27 · answer #2 · answered by yishor 4 · 0 0

he is playing head game with you. sounds like is doing more than he wants to admit and still wants you on the side in case things don't work out with these other girls. don't let someone have that kind of control over you. you sound like a smart and funny girl, go find someone worth your time and a little more grown up.

2006-12-26 10:27:18 · answer #3 · answered by ohiomontana 2 · 0 0

He is playing you.

For you, he's super important, for him you're just another girl he will post as a conquest on his myspace page.

Leave him and find ourself someone better and appreciates you.

Sorry your first turned out to be your first time getting played, I guaranteed we're not all like that.

2006-12-26 10:25:35 · answer #4 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0 0

i dont think he wants to continue the relationship if he wants to ignore you like that

stop trying to get him back and move on, there are plenty of fish in the sea

2006-12-26 10:24:29 · answer #5 · answered by penman11 2 · 0 0

yea he's playing too many games let him go. your hurting while he's having his cake and eating it too. he's mad wrong for that you'll find another trust. it'll hurt but there's a blessing in every lesson.

2006-12-26 10:25:01 · answer #6 · answered by milly 2 · 0 0

I dont think he's commited to you, the way you are to him. My advice leave it hope it gets easy for you

2006-12-26 10:24:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

THINK IT'S TIME FOR YOU 2 MOVE ON. HE HAD 2 MANY OTHER IRONS IN THE FIRE.

2006-12-26 10:23:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You already know what his answer is. Move on!

2006-12-26 10:24:50 · answer #9 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0 0

He's cheating.

2006-12-26 10:22:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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