You've mentioned alot about what SHE does and what SHE wants, but nothing of what your bf has done about it. Is he interested in taking her back or is he just talking to her for the sake of his child?
Just because this girl has decided she wants him back, doesn't mean that he feels the same. I think you should talk to your bf and find out where you stand. Until you know what he is thinking or feeling you can't honestly judge the situation enough to make that decision.
2006-12-26 10:29:46
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answered by loza500 3
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Personally, I wouldn't want to get involved with a man who is about to have a baby with someone else. I think this can only lead to heartache for you. This man will always have a connection to the baby-mama. They will get together for birthdays, school events, etc. Since you know the baby-mama wants back into his life I just foresee some real obsticles ahead if you proceed with a relationship with this man.
2006-12-26 10:21:18
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answered by Anonymous
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Do you really need all that drama? I would never b with a guy that has a kid, cuz I hate kids. Also, she is about to have his kid, don't you think he's gonna be too excited about the baby to pamper you? It aint gonna b al bout you no more, and you are gonna have to deal with his baby mama all the time. F.ck that.
2006-12-26 10:19:35
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answered by Anonymous
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nicely sit down with him and tlak to him and see what he is going to do or planning to do...u can bring up the topic of you just stay with him and he still has a relationship but not sexuall or anything like that just as i guess like wehn parents divorce and stuff try that tell if you can also be in the baby 's life and still stay with him good luck best wishes tell me how it goes
2006-12-26 10:18:38
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answered by Chinaman0389 2
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abort mission abort mission! if you can live with that type of drama day to day then be my guest and dive in. Call me old fashioned but if all that BS was happening with a woman I was into, I'm sorry but I'm not willing to tolerate it. I want to be with someone that's got their crap together. Find someone else with little to no drama. You'll thank me later.
2006-12-26 10:17:59
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answered by donbenecio 4
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IT'S REALLY HARD TO SAY IN A SITUATION LIKE THIS...BUT IT ALL BOILS DOWN TO YOUR BOYFRIEND...IS HE WILLING TO TAKE HER BACK?? THESE ARE QUESTIONS YOU NEED TO ASK HIM INSTEAD OF QUESTIONING YOURSELF....B/C IF HE IS WILLING TO BE WITH HER YOU NEED TO KNOW, SO THAT YOU WONT BE GETTING YOURSELF INTO SOMETHING THATS NOT WORTH GETTING INTO....HOWEVER IN THE MEANTIME REMAIN CALM HAVE NOTHING TO SAY TO HER WHAT SO EVER...BE LADY LIKE ABOUT IT.... BUT YOU NEED TO SIT DOWN AND HAVE A TALK WITH HIM AND ASK HIM WHAT IT IS THAT HE WANTS TO DO...BUT YOU MUST UNDERSTAND THAT HE HAS A BABY ON THE WAY WITH THIS WOMAN SO SHE IS GOING TO BE IN THE PICTURE SOMEWHERE..B/C AS A FATHER HE NEEDS TO TAKE CARE OF HIS RESPONSIBILITY...BUT IF HE IS PLANNING ON BEING WITH HER HE'S NEEDS TO LET YOU KNOW SO THAT YOU CAN FIGURE OUT WHAT IT IS THAT YOU WANT TO DO....AND I HOPE THATS MAKING THE RIGHT DECISION..GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-12-26 10:33:14
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answered by tanya m 4
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leave him,or you are going to go back and forth with him and his
baby mama, all fighting is not worth it..find some one you don't have to share..
2006-12-26 10:20:57
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answered by art z 1
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LEAVE the sooner, the better. Her trick is #2 on skank's manual, so just leave.
2006-12-26 10:19:58
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answered by MICHAEL G 2
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Go. Find a love that will be true to you. Find someone who will respect you and honor you. Find someone who will be your best friend. Find someone you can love, respect, and be proud to walk next to.
2006-12-26 10:17:20
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answered by mJc 7
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Girl please.
Get out of that relationship before you regret it for the rest of your damn life. Or, stay if you want to be on "Jerry Springer" in about 2 yrs. I mean WTF!?!
2006-12-26 10:21:56
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answered by Anonymous
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