he liked me last year when I was seeing someone, and now when I finally like him, he has a girlfriend. One of my friends told him that I liked him, which I wish she hadn't cause I'm pretty much a coward I'll admit that. She told me he said "oh" in a happy voice and then"oh" in a sad voice, then told her he was involved with someone. This happened a week before the homecoming dance, that makes it about 4 months now. I stiill talk to him and everything as a friend, and I hope he's happy, but I'll admit it I'm kind of jealous and I'm not sure how to get over it. I really like him a lot, I've tried seeing other people but it doesn't exactly help. What should I do?
2006-12-26 10:08:12 · 11 answers · asked by Ashley A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well...many things... here is a list
1 - Forget about him but it is hard i know it is same here
2 - Wait for him still hard
3 - sit down with him and talk with him and tell him that you like him and you know that he liked you before and ask him what should you do ...hopefully keyword hopefully he will be a gentlemen about and tell you the things that you can do...
4 - tell him that you will wait ((I HAVE NEVER DONE THIS TO A GIRL SO DONT TRY >>>UNLESS U WANT TO>>>I DONT KNOW THE OUTCOME))
5 - stalk him... lol no i am kidding yea just talk to him...brave up dont be scared he wont bite your head off or anything...so good luck and tell me how it goes ok?
2006-12-26 10:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by Chinaman0389 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude's got a girlfriend now? he's way over you. "oh"? is that what you're basing all this on? Seriously since when do dude's speak in hint language. Oh in manspeak means oh whether it's happy or not. Nothing more nothing less. If you're jealous it's because you missed your chance. Don't cry over spilled milk, just suck it up and find someone else. Otherwise moving in on someone else's man is trifling and low down. Did he make a move on you when you were with someone else? It's probably because he was respectful about you having a boyfriend, so return that courtesy to him if you're his friend. If you really care you'd be his friend rather than nothing at all right?
2006-12-26 10:13:01 · answer #2 · answered by donbenecio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing how I am one that believes you should always try to be happy before trying to make others happy, I would say to try and go for him. But you need to make sure you really do want him or if its only because now you can't have him. Some are in it for just the chase. So don't go screwing up something he has if you cannot give him better.
Jonesy
2006-12-26 10:12:23 · answer #3 · answered by Jonesy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try your best to get over it and see your options. Also, it depends on how deep his relationship is with the other girl. If it's really something, then don't waste your time waiting for him. If it's just a flirt, then maybe you can wait and see, but don't set your heart on him completely.
2006-12-26 10:11:30 · answer #4 · answered by Lotii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me,the lesson is don't waste time next time around,if you want something go get it.
If the timing for each of you has always been bad this relationship was not meant to be.
2006-12-26 10:13:29 · answer #5 · answered by rusalka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatly thats life....be happy for him in his new relationship....
If it was meant to be between the 2 of you then eventually you will both be on the same page at the same time...
2006-12-26 10:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up, quit playing games, and move on. You just want what you can't have. The minute you can have him, you'll be running for the hills so just stop and leave him be.
2006-12-26 10:11:54 · answer #7 · answered by fedupwithu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes leave him be. you cant play games with someones heart like that.
2006-12-26 10:14:59 · answer #8 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on!
2006-12-26 10:13:31 · answer #9 · answered by mamadee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone he might be happy
2006-12-26 10:10:35 · answer #10 · answered by chris t 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋