Just so you guys know she was coming on to me first. And I started to like her. Well here's the drama enjoy :(
We are coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said "that's so sweet." So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a cursh on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said "that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but she you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she starts to flirt a lilttle. I didn't flirt back because she has a boyfriend.I gave this girl this letter well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty blue eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends.
I gave it to her yesterday and I saw her today and she didn't say anything about it. I didn't asked her about it. I was kinda down today and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said "You don't like me anymore" and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. We are co-workers and her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the letter and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. Sometimes she flirts with me. I didn't flirt back I played it cool. Today I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it. She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees. And she also said to him that she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep the angel she just told her boyfriend that it was from a girl at work. She told that to my friend. I thought she did like me because she was flirting with me and telling other co-workers that I like her. I don't know any advice on this? I'm heart broken.
2006-12-26 09:55:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if she has a boyfriend who treats her bad and she stays with him, she is probably in love too.... just not with you. It seems like she flirts with you because she is flattered that you like her and is looking to you for something her "boyfriend" can't or won't give her...... I really like someone too and he acts like he likes me but he says different...... Sometimes to really see how they feel you need to leave the situation..... IF she really likes you she will realize it, and she will do something.... BUT I DON"T THINK YOU want her to keep your heart and give her heart to her boyfriend.... Don't quit your job, just have a honest conversation with her..... ONCE..... If you told her you like her she knows.... we all know feelings don't just vanish away....
2006-12-26 10:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by bigboss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting over a crush is NO FUN...but hon, you need to. This is a no win situation - if she leaves the current Boyfriend for you - she may do the same to you down the road...you dont want someone who gives up on a relationship just like that...and you also cant ask her to. Just be cool, be her friend and let that be that. Maybe someday she will be ready - but she for sure isnt now.
Good luck homie
2006-12-26 10:15:00 · answer #2 · answered by Broken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for you to move on. She likes the attention you are giving her but she will never be yours. There is something there that keeps her and her boyfriend together. So save yourself the heartache and let her go. There are too many other fish out there in the sea to be wasting your time on that one.
2006-12-26 10:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really it sounds like shes scard of her bf. i don't no how id deal with that. hmmmmmmm....she needs to let him go, but if shes scard then she might be scard he might do something to her if she called it off. i don't think that helped but now you kinda no more about the situation
2006-12-26 10:04:07 · answer #4 · answered by alien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep yourself busy and do things you enjoy, time will fly and before you know it, she's out of your mind.
2006-12-26 09:58:35 · answer #5 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just forget about her move o with yo life
2006-12-26 10:20:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh... well talk to her???
2006-12-26 10:00:46 · answer #7 · answered by ♥nychic♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋