i'm in love!!!!!!!!!
about 1 or 2 years ago my brother-in-low intreduced a family to my family.
there are 2 girls in that family and i love one of them.
i didn't sayanything then
but sudenly they moved to another city ( about 2 months after i met them)
i have been in love with her but she dosen't know about it
and it's been 2 years i haven't been intrested in any other girl, because i think i've found the one for me.
i don't know what to do!!
my brother-in-low has theire number and he calls them sometimes.
i took theire number of my sister's phone and they don't know it.
i don't know what to do!?!?!?!?!?!?
i have not been talking to anyone about this.
this is a love of been carrying in my heart and on my sholders for 2 years, and i think i can't take it anymore
i need some serius advise.
please help me.
i look at her number evry night before i sleep.
please let me know what i need to do and what you would do if you were me.
palease help me.
thanks
2006-12-26 09:51:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What a perfect time of year to "reconnect". I don't know how far she is from you, but get a gift basket of different items (ie: soap, perfume, a little sponge with a net over it, and a white teddy bear with red hearts or a red ribbon. Get a blank card to attach to its paw or to put inside the basket. You could write something like this: Dear___, I have thought about you often since you left a couple of months ago. I didn't realize until now how much I really like you and would like to know you better. Please call me (name the times best to reach you) at_______. I would enjoy hearing from you. Have a "beary" Happy New Year! Love_______. (Don't mention "love" other than in your closing. It sounds like, from what you've said that "love" might be a little strong right now. It could scare her away.). Good luck!
2006-12-26 10:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well this sounds a lot like me, I am a girl in love with this guy for a year, and have not wanted anyone else since I met him.
OK anyway I think you should tell her as soon as possible anyway you can. Call her or do whatever you have to do to get the message to her. Believe me thats what I done and I felt much better afterwards and I'm sure you will too, I know exactly how you feel, you need to tell the girl as soon as you can. Good Luck to you.
2006-12-26 09:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by Bored&Broken 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off, you seem a little bit obsessive on this and need to take a chill pill.It may be that she is the one for you but the only way your going to find out is to put that thought in your head to reality and be with her if its possible.
If I was you I would go talk with your brother in law and let him know you have been feeling this way.Especially since he still talks to them. He could give you the Best insight as to weather or not this is a honest possibility or not.It may be that in all this time she has already living a life different than you know. (boyfriend,engaged what ever)
Tell him what you would like to do. Maybe he could set up a time to go over there and hang out and take you with him. This way you can see her and see if there is interest in you from her and go from there.
Its worth a shot, after all, nothings going to change if your not willing to put forth a little effort.
2006-12-26 09:59:38 · answer #3 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of if you haven't waited too long already, you should call her and just talk to her, keep in touch; then when it feels right tell her how you feel.
You might get your heart broke, but then you will never know if she feels the same unless you try.
Love hurts!
How will she ever know you really have feelings for her if you don't act on them. She can always say no thanks, but like I said you'll never know unless you try.
Good luck!
2006-12-26 10:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by woman_luvshorses 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to your brother in law about it, he might be supportive or give you some advice, you never kow, but if you care for her like you say you do, then dont do nothing, try to get a hold of her, call her before it is too late.
2006-12-26 09:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by harasgirl2001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have her number then what are you waitin for call her and tell her how you feel you never know she might feel the same way about you...if you dont want to tel her about your truee feelins then try getting to know her better n giving her a chance to get to know you and then you express your feelings...thats what i would do if i were in that situation
2006-12-26 09:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your brother in law and tell him to tell her so you don't have to worry about telling her.
2006-12-26 09:57:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just call...and say that u love the person
2006-12-26 09:56:30 · answer #8 · answered by lize 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call her and tell her you'll feel better when she kows how you feel.
2006-12-26 09:54:28 · answer #9 · answered by JackieJaguar08 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋