I have loved this guy for nearly five years now and have let it go, but it somehow keeps coming back to me. Unfortunately, now he has a girlfriend and it kills me a little more everyday. I try to picture my future and I can't see him not being in it. Sometimes you just know and I have this burn in my heart for him, so what does it mean?? I know that I love him, but how can I compete with his girlfriend?? And now...it's like he's changing who he is for her. He keeps his car clean now, shaves, etc. I don't know... But all I know is that without him in my life, I feel empty. I pray every night about it and am hoping that God will show me something SOON. I don't know--what do you think!!??
2006-12-26 09:34:01 · 5 answers · asked by itz_amysue8705 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
MOVE ON!!!
If it was meant to be yours, it would come back to you. There is no point in competing with his girl over him. Doesn't help and just makes you a jealous sadist.
Pardon the stern words, but it is what I think!
Good luck!
2006-12-26 10:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by Stavi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing I can tell you is to keep on praying and be patient cause it only needs time to know what really meant to happen in the future. God bless.
I had also the same case and we just get back w/ each other and I didn't even expecting that.I guess if he's really for you then sooner or later he'll realized that.
2006-12-26 17:43:13 · answer #2 · answered by deepthinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have loved someone that we have had to let go. And that is where you are. You must clean him out of your life and let him go. Would you really want someone who does not want you?
Purge your house with the "things" from the relationship and be rid of them.
If you are meant to be together it will happen, but assume that it is not and get on with your life. Good Luck and Happy new Year.
2006-12-26 17:39:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your doing all you could do right now PRAYER! God dose things for a reason. All tho we may not see it, but God dose. Maybe it's a reason god hasn't put him in your life. God may have another plain for you. Sometimes in life we see things that we think is good for us and when we get it it's all bad. God knows what's best, so be patient and let god do his work. May God bless you.
2006-12-26 17:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. Just rememeber that 99% of couples break up. For now just try to impress him anyway. Wait til they break up and youll be the first thing he goes for if you did a good job at impressing him .Good luck!
2006-12-26 17:37:00 · answer #5 · answered by Damia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋