My husband has been cheating on me for the last 6 months?

Question

We are currently separated, but he's still the father of my 2 children, so what worries me is this. The sidechick is a ho, she has more mileage on her than a Holsum truck, and lately he has been feeling sick. His face looks tired, his skin has a grayish undertone, he gets tired really easily, and has developed a black sore on one of his ankles, plus he says he's having night sweats. Could it be AIDS?!?!?!

Answer 1

Wow!!! that sounds serious if you and him still has a relationship far as friends and able to talk to one another you should try to convince him on going to doctor even tho it's not a possibility that it will show right up..but for you and your children please be careful..I know he's the father of your kids but he needs to understand that they come first and he needs to be checked out im not saying to much about the hoe, thats because she's my least concern "Take care of those kids"

Answer 2

That's really awful!
Sure could be.. or anything else, as well!
He MUST get checked by a doctor. Hopefully all the activity has simply worn him out and lowered his resistance to infection... but who knows.
For you, of course, have NOTHING more to do with the idiot except as it pertains to your unfortunate children. Hopefully he will survive this and get healthy, leave her, and become a better father to his kids.
Don't take the sucker back, though, no matter what. If that is the quality of woman he is attracted to, you surely don't need him in your life.

Answer 3

OH my goodness, I am so sorry to hear that you are having to go through this. I will pray for you. As for your husband, it could be a number of things, drug use, aids, or just the pressure of having a double life. I think he need to go to the doc and you probably shoudl also. I wish you the best, and remember, no matter what happend between you and him, don't let the children in on anything. My sister just went through a nasty divorce and her kids are being put through the ringer. I really will pray for you. Good luck sweetie!

Answer 4

Protect yourself at all course, maybe should consider leaving and if you can't protect yourself. Be very Careful only you can determine when you're had enough'''''''' Take him to the dr's office and geet yourself check also. Good Luck I'll say a prayer for your family. Night Sweat could mean a whole hoss of other Illness also. Bye for Now.

Answer 5

I DONT THINK IT IS AIDS USALLY YOU GET A REALLY BAD COLD AND END UP IN THE HOSPITAL FOR IT THEN YOU START GETTING SORES AND LOOKING LIKE DEATH-BUT YOU CAN GO ONLINE AND LOOK UP AIDS IT SHOULD TELL YOU ALL ABOUT IT BUT I WOULDNT HAVE SEX WITH HIM AND IT USUALLY TAKES 5 Years BEFORE ANYTHING SHOWS UP=GET TESTED THAT HO JUST MIGHT HAVE GIVEN HIM SOMETHING ELSE. GOOD LUCK

Answer 6

I can not say for certain. But YOU!! Should and MUST get an AIDS test, ASAP, then again in six months, then again in 12 months, then again in 18 months. The reason for that is because if (God forbid) you have it, it may not show-up for up to five years.

Answer 7

Do not sleep with him. Encourage him to get an HIV test, but bear in mind that the effects of HIV do not show up in someone in a short 6 months time

Answer 8

Don't waste time on here asking questions. Get yourself tested pronto. This question cannot be answered without a physical examination and blood work to any definitive degree. He should get tested as well.

Answer 9

Hopefully its not AIDS. Who knows what is wrong with him. Go to the DR. and you get tested, to make sure he didn't give you something, Then cut this retard lose. This should seal the deal for the seperated/divorce theory.

Answer 10

I wouldn't take chances, and I wouldn't be with him again sexually. He has to be responsible for his own actions, but tell him to get to a doctor NOW and stay away from that girl before he catches something else!!