ok so i have a boyfriend but i made out with another girl at a bar wen i was drunk i dont noe if u would call that cheating, would u?
2006-12-26 09:06:56 · 61 answers · asked by sassy suzie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no tell him right away he'll think it's hot and will want to make out with both of u. lol
2006-12-26 09:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by Katleen F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the truth is that you were not cheating on him you did not know what you were doing it is normaly it happens to everybody some time in their life. But it have been cheating if you knew what you were doing and kept on doing it but the fact says you were drunk and being drunk makes u lose control of what you are doing but you were no cheating. Just keep it calm if you feel that you want to tell him go ahead and do it but if you are not sure how he will react play it safe and do not. but what keeps a relationship going is honesty.
2006-12-26 09:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by adajimmex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it like this, you made a promise to this boy right to be with only him in intimacy (physical and emotional) and when you made out with a girl you were physical with her so you broke that promise.
And breaking that promise is called cheating.
What I would recommend you do at this point is talk to your boyfriend and tell him the truth. Nothing can hide the truth. Come clean about it and try to explain the situation. If he's understanding and loves you then you two should be able to work through this.
2006-12-26 09:13:15 · answer #3 · answered by amanda w 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you where drunk and making out with a guy, would you consider it cheating? If yes, wants the difference with a girl?
2006-12-26 09:30:51 · answer #4 · answered by jewelsthomas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should reallly watch your drinking! Yes this is cheating, and maybe you better get real with yourself about what you want. Also what happens next time you drink? I am not being rude however you need to figure these things out. You cannot justify cheating by saying it was a girl...cheating is cheating!
2006-12-26 09:20:42 · answer #5 · answered by wandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a relationship when i slept with a lass. My boyfriend classed it as cheating but i didn,t. Although the more i think about it, it is still cheating regardless of doing it with male or female
2006-12-26 09:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by AnyaNledo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is cheating being drunk is not an excuse for your actions if you cant handle your drinking dont drink
2006-12-26 09:10:27 · answer #7 · answered by PhillyDude 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.....But think about it like this when he is drunk would you want him to be kissing all over some chick? No..... That's why some couples label it cheating don't get caught doing something unless you want to catch them doing the same thing.
2006-12-26 09:10:40 · answer #8 · answered by Lovie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it had been another guy i would call that cheating! but since it wasnt a guy i guess it's ok. but anyway i think u should check ur morals on kissing whether it be a person of the same or different sex. so umm be careful!
2006-12-26 09:10:30 · answer #9 · answered by Marc 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How's your bf feel? Does he think it is cheating? Does he know? If you are hiding it from him, then, yes, it is cheating. If you are open and honest and don't feel guilty, then no, it wasn't. I would share it with him if he doesn't know so that he finds out from you and not someone else though!
Good luck!
2006-12-26 09:12:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, it is cheating. how would you feel if he made out with a chick and blamed it on alcohol...... People do things that they want to do when they are drunk and then blame it on the alcohol.
2006-12-26 09:11:33 · answer #11 · answered by Miss E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋