Does he still have feelings for me???

Question

So recently my ex from like 6 years ago (he was my first boyfriend) started calling me throughout the day to see what I was doing and at night before we each went to sleep. We are friends and have been since we were together. But we are not close friends or anything. And he also asked me to the movies which is weird because we never hang out alone.

His friend also asked me how I would feel if he did wanna start a relationship but his friend did the same thing 2 years ago. (he told him i liked him and told me he liked me but we both had no feelings) so I'm thinking all this is a joke? but why would he want to make the effort to call and all that junk?

anyways, just wanted your guys' opinion :)

Answer 1

Sounds like he may want to start things up again. Did you sleep with him when you were dating before? If so maybe he just wants to get in your pants again.

If you didn't then I would accept his date invitation and see where it leads.

Answer 2

well, I am not sure, but if he does the following then he dose have feelings...

Examine his body language. If he likes you, you will see that his body position will lean forward toward you.
Keep close. Ever get the feeling that somebody is "in" your personal space - so much so that you want to step back? If he likes you and you like him, neither of you will step back.
Make eye contact - if he likes you, he'll get it and hold it. Again, this can be uncomfortable if you don't like him or vice versa. You'll know if you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly.
Be aware of touching - he might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, or not move his leg if it happens to touch yours. This is a very good sign that he likes you.
Keep an eye out. His pupils will dilate (get bigger) if he likes you - but this is quite hard to pick up on and you might look a bit weird looking that closely into his eyes.
See if he keeps going out of his way to 'bump' into you.
Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do.
Joke freely. Does he laugh even if you aren't funny?
Check for signs of nervousness: nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting...
Smile. A big smile in return probably means the feeling is mutual.
See if he always end up in the same line or group as you.
Ask! You can do this over AIM or email if you really are nervous. Try to do it casually; he may ask if you like him first...say Yes! Tell him you don't like mind games, and he'll likely follow your lead and be straighforward.
He'll start pushing you around playfully (if you ever have a tickle fight with some of your friends, he'll usually go for you)



Tips
Does he make an extra effort to be around you in certain situations (dances, school, etc)? That could be a sign.
His friends might often ask you how you feel about him.
Chances are, if your stomach does a flip flop when you see him, his may be doing the same.
Smile, be yourself, and let biology and fate work their charms.
Try to look at the situation objectively. Ask friends you trust for their opinion.
The guy might like you but not know he likes you. If this is the case, try to put him into situations where he will realize that he enjoys spending time with you.
If you think he does like you, get him email/IM name and begin to talk to him online. This will help even the shyest guy get up the nerve to ask you out.
It is fine to flirt with boys but don't make it too obvious that you're flirting...he might think you're kind of weird.
If there is a rumor going around that you like this guy that you don't like...don't let it bother you too much. They'll see that it is bothering you and think that you actually do like them even though you might not!
You can always ask a friend to ask him - but that can backfire.
You can't really make someone like you - but the best way to be noticed is to be true to yourself, feel good about yourself and never do anything you don't want to do to get someone's affection.
Think about how you act when you like someone and look for those signs in others.
Wear lipgloss, mascara, and eyeliner, but that's it.
Always have clean, shiny, brushed hair.
Stand tall. It's the first thing they teach you at model school.
He might be shy, and act differently around you. Some guys are shy around girls they like, but very open to those they wouldn't really have a big relationship with. If he avoids you at school and talks to you after school and on weekends it means he's shy...it also means he might like you.
Make sure the male in question is heterosexual. Some homosexual men are more comfortable showing affection toward female friends because they are not worried about the friend thinking they are romantically interested. You could easily get the wrong idea.

Answer 3

That is a set-up. Please don't think that this person still likes you. Let him know that you are currently dating someone, and you can't.

Answer 4

He's bored and/or lonely.