I barely know this girl, Ive met her in person twice, on the same day. talked for a while that day, and now a week later it seems like she likes me, even though i'm two grades above her. I kind of like her too. She invited me to a party in 5 days. A few other guys in her grade will probably be there, and a bunch of her friends who are girls. most of hte guys going are her guy friends. Except one. She emailed me and said, "you coming?" what should I tell her? I want to go real bad to get to know her and strike something up, dont want to make it sound like i have nothing better to do though because I was actually going to go party with my buddies and do what we do. But anyway, how can i email her back to make it sound like I am interested in going but be non chalant and sorta like its whatever. I dont want to sound needy or any of that. (PS. this would be easier if we were in the same grade, i would just say yes.) Oh and, i also kind of want to make her like "omg is he coming? omg" etc
2006-12-26 09:01:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OH and my sister is going to that party because shes friends with the girl i like. And i will probably end up having to take her. AHH
2006-12-26 09:03:46 · update #1
Okay, Bill's Rule on Games: Games beget more games.
Since the only people who say beget now are me and other stuffy old people, I'll translate. If you don't deal with her in an upfront manner, she won't deal with you that way.
What happens then? You're each on freaking Yahoo Answers asking "Does he love me?" "Does she think I'm hot?" "Should we kiss?" "What kind of Arbor Day present should I give her?"
Communicate with HER. Be straightforward. She took a leap and invited you to the party. Don't play mysterious or leave her hanging in limbo.
And take notes, you may want to use these handy words of wisdom with other young ladies.
2006-12-26 09:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go to the damn party, take your sister with you and possibly some of your buddies too. Let her know your coming and maybe add in the email something like "yeah I'll be at your house. Can't wait :)" That will get her excited. Don't be such a fool.
2006-12-26 09:31:46 · answer #2 · answered by RoadRunner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiding issues from ur mothers and dads is going to get u into deep difficulty faster or later, so terrific tell them that u r being invited to such a factor , yet xplain dat all of them are sturdy pals of yours and there is not any romantic liaison.i'm beneficial they're going to understand inspite of each and every thing at a factor to time even they could have been in a similar difficulty
2016-10-28 10:17:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say if you are going and that you are looking forward to it and sign it. Thats it. She wont care that you had nothing planned that night (It wont look lame) she just wants you there. It is simple but should make he excited. When you get there talk to her for a little but as the night goes on see where it goes, since you hardly know her. This is a good chance to meet other people in your school don't worry that you don't know anyone very well. I hope everything goes well.
2006-12-26 09:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by Bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All that type, Haven't you made your mind up yet? I was told by a good friend, Dance with everyone you can. Even the fat, not so good looking.
Because the other girls are looking at you and when you ask they have a better opinion of you. seems you have down.
So just go!
2006-12-26 09:15:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
email her back and say something like "well i think i have something to do that day, but i'll see if i can make it." then show up fashonably late. it will get her to wondering if you will really come. bringing your litle sister wouldn't be a bad idea so that way it doesn't look like you tried to make a speical effort to come with out anyone
2006-12-26 09:13:46 · answer #6 · answered by alien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until one or two days before the party then say yes you can come
2006-12-26 09:08:05 · answer #7 · answered by valley1800 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go and enjoy yourself. Don't be a jerk about it. Some things in life we do for other people that we don't really like to do but do it for them.
2006-12-26 09:05:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO...if you are comfortable with it go yea bring a friend it wouldnt be a problem if its a big party. It's your choice!
2006-12-26 09:05:26 · answer #9 · answered by DaNiElLe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you were going to goto a party with YOUR friends, do not, i repeat do NOT dump them for the girl you hardly know
i repeat do NOT ditch your friends
tell her that "sorry, i had something planned with my friends, sorry i cant come"
2006-12-26 09:05:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋