in other words when did you loose your virginity and how
i am 16 and was wondering when i should, i want to wait for the right girl but idk when is old enough
2006-12-26 09:00:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by how i meant with a gf/bf or just a hook up gone to far
2006-12-26 09:06:00 · update #1
There is no right age, I should say wait until your 18 but I am sure you have heard that a lot! As for the right person and time I wish it was that easy, when it is the right person and time you will know and it will happen naturally. I was 16 and I was pressured by my friends and it was not what I expected at all. So follow your gut!
2006-12-26 09:06:05 · answer #1 · answered by Tammy R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See the movie "The 40 year old Virgin"
I'm not kidding, this movie is funny i know, but it does offer some sound advice. Practice makes perfect. If you wait until you're married and your wedding night turns out to be a scene from "dawn of the dead" she may lose all interest and leave you. If this person is going to be the love of your life, do you want to suck at sex the first time you have sex with her? I know I wouldn't.
Practice with a girl that's lookin to hook up, she'll be able to give you some pointers. Preferably an older chick, they know their stuff. :)
2006-12-26 17:23:14 · answer #2 · answered by michael f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay a virgin till you're married.
God intended it to be that way.
But many, MANY people abuse that.
And God looks down on those people.
You don't just give your virginity to just anybody.
It is the best present you can give your future wife.
It is you... it is all of you.
And in a girl's perspective:
If you become pregnant, you can handle it better when you're married.
You'll have that person beside you who promised to always be by your side.
It won't be some random guy or some guy who you THOUGHT loved you.
Sex makes many things complicated in an unmarried relationship.
It takes two very mature people.
You do not want to get yourself lost in everything that comes with sex.
Most people nowadays tend to just BASE their relationship on sex.
I am a virgin myself. I have a boyfriend of more than 10 months that I am completely in love with. We talk about marriage and how I want to wait till our wedding day to have sex. He truly does love me... he respects me. That's when you KNOW you have a great guy. That's when you KNOW he's in love with you... when he has absolutely no problem in waiting. Actions speak louder than words...
2006-12-26 17:03:55 · answer #3 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 16 and it was with a guy i was in love with. We stayed together for 5 years but afterwards and to this day I wish I would have waited until i was married or at least a responsible adult.
2006-12-26 17:05:03 · answer #4 · answered by Miss E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 17 she was 18 it was the first time for both of us
2006-12-26 17:05:36 · answer #5 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 14 and a lot of people I know were the same age but I don't think there's anything wrong if you think you are emotionally ready. Just respect yourself and make others respect you too. I stilll regret losing at the age I did but if you think your ready go for it you'll know when it's right
2006-12-26 17:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by kandi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am waiting for marriage. If you wait, and find a girl who is also waiting, it will make it so much more special on your wedding day. It will show someone how much you love them if you have enough self control to wait untill then.
2006-12-26 17:06:04 · answer #7 · answered by girl of lamancha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 17 and I haven't lost it yet... You should wait for the right girl to come... You will enjoy it more, and it will be memorable. Wait till your out of school...
2006-12-26 17:06:20 · answer #8 · answered by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until your ready, i was 14 when it happend and i regret it everyday. sex is over rated, dont rush it. Wait, trust me you'll be glad you did later on down the road. there are too many diseases floating around to just go and sleep with someone.
2006-12-26 17:05:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely wait for the one. It just makes the experience that much awsome. I was 15 and me and my honey lost it to each other.
2006-12-26 17:04:28 · answer #10 · answered by SugarCookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋