i told him that's nasty and i don't want my face being down there but he says it's just like kissing. i told him that prostitutes do that and he said that's not true and well i'm scared what if he finds some other girl that would do it, but am i just being naive about oral?
2006-12-26 08:58:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make him go down on you!!!!Would you consider that nasty? It's not as bad as all that! Preacher's wives do it, teachers do it....it's not only for prostitutes.It's part of most people's sex lives. You know you are running him off to someone that doesn't think it's nasty and will do that for him with no regrets.Yes you are being naive about it, you can't truly know if you don't like something unless you try it, then you can have an opinion.If you are not ready to do that then no one should make you...if you lose him for not trying that's on you.
2006-12-26 09:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
well, its not nasty, but its not just like kissing either. Yes prostitutes do that, but so do "normal" people. Yes, you are being naive about oral. Does he go "down there" for you?
2006-12-26 17:02:50 · answer #2 · answered by dr schmitty 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Don't be naive... HE DOESNOT LOVE YOU!!!! He just want pleasure and that is it, if he finds another, let him leave, it is better that he leaves now and not when you are married.
Think about this, let's say that you don't marry him, then you find a real man, a man of honor. How would you feel kissing him knowing what you did to this guy? Won't you feel like trash? Avoid it now that there is time. as for him, he is not a real man, he says he is a man just because that is what the midwife said when he was born, not because he has earned his title.
2006-12-26 17:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by skydiver 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
If you don't want to do it, then he should respect that. Not all women like giving oral and many don't give it at all. You shouldn't feel pressured to do and if he is pressuring you then he is wrong. If he finds someone else then you know that he was just with you for sexual favors and you should be glad that you found out what kinda guy he really was.
2006-12-26 17:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Well , there is really nothing wrong with oral sex as long as "both" party's are OK with it and they are very particular with their cleanliness. If you really don't want to do that then he should not pressure you into it.
2006-12-26 17:03:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it if you're uncomfortable with it. If he cares about you then he will respect your decision. If you do decide to do it and it doesn't scare you or make you uncomfortable, then he should be going down on you too. It's only fair. If he doesn't respect your wishes, then you need to move on.
2006-12-26 17:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by spyhopper 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Tell him you will only do it if he does it for you. And no it isn't just prostitutes that do it, theres nothing wrong with it, its actually kinda nice.
2006-12-26 17:01:43 · answer #7 · answered by Eric G 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
perfect answer nell_jen
i totally agree, everybody does it nothing nasty about it
but i also believe its better to give than to receive :-p)y( if ya know what i mean
2006-12-26 17:25:51 · answer #8 · answered by seven_ms_man 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it... no telling how many other people he's been doing that with with... Not to mention how many women he's had unprotected sex with. Don't put your mouth or any other body part of that mess....RUN!
2006-12-26 17:07:37 · answer #9 · answered by 247 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
a little naive...oral is great and fun, but only if it's consensual.
2006-12-26 17:05:43 · answer #10 · answered by me! 4 · 3⤊ 3⤋