ok my brother is 15 and he always has partys and people over and hes a realy popular kid in school. but he doesnt get good grades and stuff and he is always grounded. my parents are gone alot tho so he always has his friends over and partys. well last time he had a party someone had beer and he didnt drink it but my parents came home and thought he did i told them he didnt but they thought that i was just lieing for him cuz he always tells me to lie for him and they thought i was doing that so he is in huge trouble and my parents want to send him to military school. i dont want him to leave tho cuz he always sticks up for me when people are mean to me and i like him around so im not lonley cuz i dont have a lot of friends cuz im realy shy any ideas on what i can do so my parents will belve him and me and wont go to military school?
2006-12-26 08:54:32 · 15 answers · asked by kimiiskool 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well wow....you and i have a lot in common but i am 13 and my bro is 17. I just want you to know that there is not much that you can do. My parents are threatening to send him away too but they have not and they have been saying that for the last 3 years. If you need to talk e-mail me at funisoverrated@yahoo.com (the address is one my bro picked out!)
2006-12-26 09:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by thatonegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you type very well to be 8! I don't remember being that smart at 8 yrs old!
But to answer your question, I think that you should sit your whole family down and tell each of them exactly how you feel..You can say it the same way you asked your question on yahoo answers! Just be sure to get it off of your chest...Ask your parents to please forgive you and your brother for the times that you have lied and that you have learned your lesson because now they do not believe you when you are telling the truth..
You can also talk to your brother alone and tell him that you want and need him around that you feel it would mess your whole life up if he was to leave..Ask him to please stop getting in to trouble so that he can stay in your life..I'm sure he will understand what you are saying... He loves you too remember that!!
2006-12-26 09:15:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't a lot you can do. Try having your brothers friends tell your parents what happened, or talk to your parents. Tell you mom how you feel and try to get her to understand that you really look up to your brother and that when alcohol was brought he took you aside to explain that drinking was bad.
they may just not care, but it can't hurt to try.
2006-12-26 08:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by ... :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
supply up being egocentric and take your detrimental mom to the overall practitioner. all of us bypass on basically some hours of sleep a evening when we've childrens, sick mother and father, and so on. get over it. Get some snoozing pills or take some nyquil once your toddler falls asleep and bypass to mattress. in the course of the finished question you've been extremely basically in touch with your self, yet you have to be deliberating your mom. that's totally immature on your doorstep father to call all of your siblings and ***** about you, so i'd attempt to seek for suggestion from with him about that too. GL! :)
2016-12-01 04:53:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will all have to sit down, and your brother must admit that one of his friends did drink the alcohol, and you should admit that you knew of it and in a way covered up for it. expect to be grounded and lose party privileges, but that should be the extent of it if you both come totally clean. and always expect the worse punishment, be willing to accept it, and when it is lower, it isn't difficult at all
2006-12-26 08:59:54 · answer #5 · answered by mike mann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really sound like a smart kid ,they probally would love what you wrote ,because you sound honest and your question is heart felt, but your brother should not allowed the beer at the party. just let them read your question .i think they will believe you .
2006-12-26 09:13:19 · answer #6 · answered by texas nanna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am agreeing with lyn. You need to tell them what you've written here. Sorry U R in the middle of all this.
2006-12-26 09:03:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like military school is best for your brother.
2006-12-26 08:59:51 · answer #8 · answered by Annalisa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
JUST WRITE YOUR FOLKS OR COPY WHAT YOU HAVE WRITTEN HERE, IT'S VERY NICE, AND SHOW IT TO THEM. YOUR FOLKS ARE JUST TRYING TO KEEP YOUR BROTHER IN SCHOOL AND OUT OF TROUBLE. SORRY SOMEONE HAD TO MESS UP THE PARTY BY BRINGING BEER.
2006-12-26 08:59:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
always tell the truth. that is a very important lesson. if you are real sure he didn't drink, then tell your parents again. maybe they didn't hear the first time.
2006-12-26 08:59:32 · answer #10 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋