it started out as we were both very interested in each other and we messed around a lot. however i started dating someone else....well fast forward one year and i tell him i'm single again and he goes back to start trying to get with me again. the thought just makes me sick as i'm not interested in him at all that way anymore. but he was always a good friend..how can i let him know without him getting upset and not talking to me anymore? i'm tired of him hitting on me but i loved him as a friend.
2006-12-26 08:46:57 · 10 answers · asked by anonymous 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him an ultimatum: He can either be your friend and stop hitting on you or he can no longer be your friend.
This way, you make him have to choose, and if he doesn't want to lose a friend, he'll make the right choice.
Also, help set him up with a different girl.
2006-12-26 08:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by Mattvayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there, He is not really your friend because if he was he would respect and go with the signals and non verbal messages you are putting out there.
Guy's and girls use the old friend card as an "in" that's an old one....
If you feel the need use phrases like " you are like an older brother to me" that sentence will put the issue beyond doubt..
And if that fails wide berth him for a while..
Good luck
2006-12-26 10:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by Adrian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 01:20:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you still value him as a friend, but that you no longer have romantic feelings toward him. There's not much of a way to sugarcoat it. Be honest. Just say you want to put the past in the past.
2006-12-26 08:51:01 · answer #4 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like he was/is interested in you and was going to try to pursue it again. He had his chance. All you can do is tell him...Although I believe you will lose his friendship.
2006-12-26 08:56:00 · answer #5 · answered by mvas800 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him and deal with the rest
2006-12-26 08:49:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, ask him to take it slow. lik start all over being friends again. i dont know, maybe he'll know ur a better friend then gf, no offense.
2006-12-26 08:54:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already have. He's a guy, stop tryin to make him a girlfriend.
2006-12-26 09:27:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about someone else you really like alot in front of him!!
2006-12-26 08:49:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
impossible cant happen.........unless he is gay
2006-12-26 08:54:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋