I've date my boyfriend for fours years with two 3 week separations. We have a good relationship, and we're both good people, but we're young. I am 21 and he is 20, recently we had been arguing and in the effort to resolve it he said he might need some time. So if I am 100% in love with this man how long do I wait for him to decide he is 100% in love with me or not and I am his one? I will be devastated if I am not the one...and how can I cope with this hurt if I am not?
2006-12-26 08:46:10 · 7 answers · asked by Crystal W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait as long as it takes for him to get back in touch with you.
2006-12-26 08:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christal, maybe you should give him some solo time. Let him think about his point of view on the relationship. Give yourself some selfrespect though,don't wait along for this so called love of your life, it takes two people to make a relationship progress,and if its only you that wants it to work then maybe you two are just an illusion........!!
good luck!!!
2006-12-26 16:57:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you love him 100% u should respect his desions and tell him that ur still in luv with him. and u said u guys had 2 3 week separtaions. so this is probably another one of those. so now u have 3 3 week separations!
2006-12-26 16:50:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have shot up a flare and nobody is coming to the rescue. It's time to paddle your own boat..Let him swim along behind..If he asks any questions tell he may be fishing but he is using the wrong bait.!!!!I love it when a wax poetic.
2006-12-26 16:59:20 · answer #4 · answered by buzzwaltz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait as long as you can, guys like a gal that waits for him!!!
2006-12-26 16:49:16 · answer #5 · answered by ballman4425 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you tell him, if he can't figure out after 4 years whether or not he loves you, you might as well call it quits.
2006-12-26 17:06:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont wait. you keep living your life, dont wait for him to make up his mind. you could be missing out on something better.
2006-12-26 16:53:25 · answer #7 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋