I told my close female friend that I needed time away from her to clear my head after she kept giving me undecisive answers if we'll go further than friends.She said if that's how I feel then she respects that and that maybe I do need time to sort my head out.(told her I don't know what to think\do anymore about her undecisiveness,am confused,need to clear my head).
The conversation ended on this note, with her saying:
She then said there are too many ppl in the world who are 2 faced and selfish,who don't value individuals like she does.Is hurt that OTHER ppl don't value ppl the way she does.MEANING???
Not spoken for 3 weeks now.(the longest ever!)What she thinking\feeling?Will she EVER speak to me again?What do I do now?
For xmas I sent her a xmas card and a small teddy(saying special friend)-just saying merry xmas and happy new year. I wrote a short message how special and unique she is+ how important the friendship is to me.
Who'd get 1st in touch again?
2006-12-26 08:43:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Would this be ok??OR Would she throw the card\gift in the bin??
She appreciate it??Her reaction to the message??
p.s. gift not delivered yet...
2006-12-26 08:44:10 · update #1
You should give her one chance... send the gift and if she still doesn't respond forget her.
2006-12-26 08:46:20 · answer #1 · answered by hey! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First she is not you girlfriend so why do you have to ask for permission for time apart. Sounds like you don't like her and asked if it's OK not to talk to her in public anymore.
Second, you are upset that it's been 3 weeks since you have talked. You are the one who wants time apart!
If you want to see and talk to her you have to make the first move not her. If you are luck she will miss you too. Good Luck.
2006-12-26 09:11:04 · answer #2 · answered by jewelsthomas 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think its alright that you gave her a bit of space and time. however i think you should be the one to contact her and stop entertaining romantic thoughts in your head that she will call you and say she misses you. that may not happen so pick up the phone to she how she's been and maybe she would give you a better explanation on what she meant.
2006-12-26 09:07:22 · answer #3 · answered by snowflakes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her the gift before it is to late . We always leave things until its to late like telling people how we really feel about them .
2006-12-26 08:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by bob a builder 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women NEVER have sex with 'nice' men (the type who send cards and teddies). There's your answer. If you're looking for a sexual relationship, you're going nowhere with her.
2006-12-26 08:47:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with "hey!" Give the card and teddy bear. If she ignores then don't bother with her anymore.
2006-12-26 08:48:41 · answer #6 · answered by Jenniphur 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give it to her. if she still likes u, she'll give u another chance. or u just give her another chance. i dont know! ur story was too long! i got confused!
2006-12-26 08:47:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your the one that neededto clear his head, it seems it needs some more clearing yet.
2006-12-26 09:11:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
FORST YOU SHOULD GIVE HER A TRY LIKE "WHAT THE HAY!" AND START TALKING TO HER........
2006-12-26 08:47:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋