I'm an only child and I see my parents loving on it and I feel so mad but it's just a baby I feel like a monster becuz im a jealous person over attention.Please Help
2006-12-26 08:42:49 · 12 answers · asked by BigBallerGurl2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just think how pathetic you are getting jealous over an innocent baby. Everyone loves babies. But loving a baby does not diminish the love your parents have for you. Love is multiplied not divided. Be happy that this baby is loved and will not have to grow up being abused and neglected. A baby is pretty much at the mercy of those who are around it and if people are mean to it it will suffer. You need to develop compassion and love for others and not think so much about yourself. It may take time but think of how you would feel if you were this baby and no one was loving on you because an older spoiled brat wanted all the attention.
2006-12-26 08:48:28 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Don't worry I know how you feel. The baby gets all the attention and things. People are saying how "pathetic you are" and yet they are being pathetic by being an asshole to a child. Don't worry about it sweetie don't listen to these haters, I'm sure your aunt loves you very much, don't ever feel like that. I'm sure you're a wonderful person :-)
2016-08-05 10:05:06 · answer #2 · answered by Shana 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy, I can see where this is going. Be Careful. First thing that you need to know is jealousies are so ugly. Second thing is, that innocent little baby did'nt ask to be part of you're misery, look at the child, get to know the baby, this child is related to you. Get past the aunt thing, and don't even get it into you're head about having a child of you're own to cover up these emotions that are pouring out. Children are expensive, and once you have them, you can't shop for yourself, you'll have diapers and formula to buy.
2006-12-26 08:57:42 · answer #3 · answered by Cheryl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a baby. Maybe when your parents are loving on this baby they are remembering when you were that small and how they use to do the same to you. There is no need to be jealous cause you will always be there baby.
2006-12-26 08:48:09 · answer #4 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good that you understand that your parents' love for the baby doesn't pose a real threat. It's just a baby. Because you've realized that, I think it'll just click eventually that the jealousy is just a silly reflex because your parents' attention shifted temporarily.
2006-12-26 08:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by Scarlet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 4 brothers and a sister younger than me. When each was born, I felt that way. As time went on I realized that every one of us feels that sometime in their life. Explain to your parents how you feel. They probably do not realize it is hurting you.
2006-12-26 08:49:39 · answer #6 · answered by Jodi C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have some issues! I hope that you grow out of that crap cause your going to have a long hard life with an attitude like that!!! GROW UP!
2006-12-26 08:45:22 · answer #7 · answered by Topaz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hope you cure that before you get older. We don't need any more crazy a** full grown women in America!
2006-12-26 08:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'VE BEEN THERE BEFORE TOO, IT'S ONLY A BABY AND NOT LIVING AT YOUR HOUSE. THEY'RE PROBABLY HAPPY FOR YOUR AUNT.
2006-12-26 08:45:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your so wrong...grow-up!
Be happy for your Aunt.
2006-12-26 08:49:31 · answer #10 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋