For a guy, she could show interest in us now or in 30 days and we would still want her if we like her.
But i get advice to "act quick before its too late" with some chick when i get a sign onf interest in me.
If she is still single 30-60-90 days from now, Why the need to act fast?
2006-12-26 08:37:16 · 18 answers · asked by Peter X. Long 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
susssie - i knew that, i also admire you for being honest.
2006-12-26 09:48:08 · update #1
girls usually don't like guys very long.we're girls. we... tend to be the type to do flings more then guys. girls are the sluts not men.ya know?
complicated
2006-12-26 08:39:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Some guys are intimidated by "pretty" girls. This may be due to his past or merely TV ("pretty" girls are portrayed as stuck up, bitchy, too into themselves to care about someone else) And believe it or not, most guys are sensitive too. I'm not saying your like the above. But maybe it might help for you to make the move and show them that your anything but that. And maybe take a look at the way you act and talk, you might not mean it. but almost all the time everything we say and do sometimes comes across the wrong way (depending on the mood of others). hope that helps...good luck sunshine! :)
2016-03-13 22:17:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Act Fast" in showing some GENUINE interest...not going to the nearest Justice of Peace or something too serious too soon, is probably what is meant by that expression.
Real Relationships take time. If you want a real woman, TAKE your time. So, yes act quickly to show true, honest interest but then take your time, don't rush into a relationship, because if you like her and she likes you and you both no that, no hurry, it will all work out IF it is meant to be.
2006-12-26 08:43:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
In personal experience I do not act fast but take things on board and think again. From a girls point of view: if a guy was to "Act Fast", I would question their motive!
2006-12-26 08:50:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
because sometimes with girls its a spark of interest but if it doesnt have anything to catch on she will give up and try something else. every girl has been hurt a bunch of times before, so she doesnt want to wait around quite often. but remember this is only with some girls.....but quite often girls push guys out of their minds if they think they dont like them like that and they get impatient and try to find someone else. so like they say, act fast or they may move on and block u from their mind for fear of getting hurt or too attached....thats normally why girls dont like guys after they've become such good friends...blocking them out and getting used to the friend factor...
2006-12-26 08:40:12 · answer #5 · answered by . 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There is none. I never heard of this 'rule.'
Guys and girls are equally in demand at all times if they're decent people. Everyone has their own rate of speed at which they like to move in relationships.
2006-12-26 08:38:43 · answer #6 · answered by Abe Simpson 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's true. If she shows you she likes you, don't keep her hanging there. Some guys are scared, lazy whatever .. but if you leave it too long .. she's going to get annoyed and disappear.
2006-12-26 10:00:21 · answer #7 · answered by Olivia L 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to act fast because most girls can get any guy they want anytime
2006-12-26 08:39:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
if u don't act fast you might get rolled over a hot steam engine,as she might find another guy.
And then you will ponder i should have acted faster.
2006-12-26 08:40:44 · answer #9 · answered by Gavin 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Because she might not be single in 30-60-90 days.
2006-12-26 08:39:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
No need to act fast, love is patient... I mean, real love, not just phisycal atraction.
2006-12-26 08:51:50 · answer #11 · answered by skydiver 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋