2006-12-26 08:36:18 · 30 answers · asked by miko 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yea sorry i meant "MY" boyfriend not "YOUR" boyfriend...sorry
2006-12-28 12:12:21 · update #1
no i dont think so
2006-12-26 08:37:57 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At one point in time, I'd have said no. But the truth is, anyone is capable of cheating. Several factors have to be there, and each of those factors depends on the person. For example, even the happiest married woman on the planet might skip town for a one night stand with the celebrity of her dreams. It isn't any different in a lower scale setting. If you suspect that the boyfriend you are with would cheat on you, odds are you don't have that trust factor in place anyway. Or you are just really worried and maybe a little possessive. Both of those factors can dampen a relationship on their own. Either you trust him enough to know that you are a valuable person that he wouldn't want to ever lose...or you don't. And if you don't, maybe you should find someone to be that you will.
2006-12-26 16:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by Destiny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I do not think so. There is a saying "Do unto others as you want them to do unto you". Well since he has been hurt he does not want to hurt you also. He know how that feeling feels now and if it hurted him hard enough then he will not want to go through it all over again. I do not think that he will cheat on you. Personally I think that your only problem would be getting him to trust you . I know that he might have known you for a while but it all depends on what department his EX cheated on him in. Just give him a little time I am sure he will come around,,,
2006-12-26 16:57:08 · answer #3 · answered by lisababy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were the one who cheated on him, then yes there is a good chance he would cheat back to get even. However if he was cheated on by someone else, I would think it is less likely he would cheated on you. He already has been put through a lot of pain, and for him that may be enough.
2006-12-26 16:41:00 · answer #4 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the type of person he is, and if he has morals. A person can be cheated on and not ever cheat back or bring "drama" from a past relationship into a new one. If you were the one that has done the cheating, you need to talk to him or else you'll keep that guilty conscience. If it wasnt you, and he has been hurt in the past, sit down and talk to him. Ask him how he feels about that type of thing.
2006-12-26 16:40:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's been cheated ON, then he might have suspicions that you may cheat on him - past experiences can cause a lack of trust wtih new relationships. But this does not mean that he's clean. Most likely though, he'll stay away from doing that because if he loves you, he will not do the same thing unto you.
So yeah, its possible. But unlikely.
2006-12-26 16:38:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, now if the shoe was on the other foot and he was the cheater then it would be a definite yes cause once a cheater always a cheater. But since he is the one that was cheated on NO cause he knows the pain of having it done to him. He may be a little leery in trusting another female but he will not be the cheater.
2006-12-26 16:40:06 · answer #7 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Were you the one who cheated on him? If not then your probably ok. If your worried about him being damaged goods because someone else screwed him up then maybe. Then again MOST people have been cheated on at some point of their life, it doesn't necessarily mean that they will turn around and become cheaters.
2006-12-26 16:40:56 · answer #8 · answered by Topaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean to say:
"If MY boyfriend has been cheated on, is it possible that he would cheat on me?"
Anything is possible. Vengeance or an idea that cheating is tacit permission to cheat often, but not always, lead the cheated upon to become cheaters.
2006-12-26 16:38:43 · answer #9 · answered by Curly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes. It is like when you grow up, if your parents hit you, you are either OK with hitting your children or completely against it. Him being cheated on may make him realize the pain of being cheated on and may know better then to do that to you. There is no guarantees though. Life gives us no guarantees.
-EA
2006-12-26 16:39:16 · answer #10 · answered by Earthy Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a good chance, especially if your the one that cheated on him. Talk to him, and see how he deals with the whole cheating scene. He coudl possible be honest with you, and let you know if he would or not. Good Luck.
2006-12-26 16:40:47 · answer #11 · answered by In love with Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋